BOTHER Synonyms: 362 Similar and Opposite Words

Q: How does the verb 'bother' differ from other similar words?

Some common synonyms of bother are annoy , irk , and vex . While all these words mean "to upset a person's composure," bother suggests interference with comfort or peace of mind. // don't bother me while I'm reading

Q: In what contexts can 'annoy' take the place of 'bother'?

The words annoy and bother are synonyms, but do differ in nuance. Specifically, annoy implies a wearing on the nerves by persistent petty unpleasantness. // their constant complaining annoys us

Q: When can 'irk' be used instead of 'bother'?

Although the words irk and bother have much in common, irk stresses difficulty in enduring and the resulting weariness or impatience of spirit. // careless waste irks the boss

Q: When is it sensible to use 'vex' instead of 'bother'?

The synonyms vex and bother are sometimes interchangeable, but vex implies greater provocation and stronger disturbance and usually connotes anger but sometimes perplexity or anxiety. // vexed by her son's failure to clean his room

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ˈbä-t͟hər

Definition of bother

as in to worry

to thrust oneself upon (another) without invitation I am never going to get this work done if people don't stop wandering into the room and bothering me

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as in to annoy

to disturb the peace of mind of (someone) especially by repeated disagreeable acts it bothers me when obviously sick people go to movies and spend the whole time coughing and sneezing

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as in to fret

to experience concern or anxiety just get the basic concept right and don't bother about the details

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as in to disturb

to trouble the mind of; to make uneasy the boss's cryptic message about changes to the company bothered me

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as in hurry

a state of noisy, confused activity the whole household was in a bother, as our overnight guests were expected to arrive any minute

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as in nuisance

one who is obnoxiously annoying the woman next-door is such a bother—always dropping in at the most inopportune moments!

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as in headache

something that is a source of irritation returning damaged goods is a real bother

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as in frustration

the feeling of impatience or anger caused by another's repeated disagreeable acts never let his personal bothers interfere with his responsibilities at work

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How does the verb bother differ from other similar words?

Some common synonyms of bother are annoy, irk, and vex. While all these words mean "to upset a person's composure," bother suggests interference with comfort or peace of mind.

don't bother me while I'm reading

In what contexts can annoy take the place of bother?

The words annoy and bother are synonyms, but do differ in nuance. Specifically, annoy implies a wearing on the nerves by persistent petty unpleasantness.

their constant complaining annoys us

When can irk be used instead of bother?

Although the words irk and bother have much in common, irk stresses difficulty in enduring and the resulting weariness or impatience of spirit.

careless waste irks the boss

When is it sensible to use vex instead of bother?

The synonyms vex and bother are sometimes interchangeable, but vex implies greater provocation and stronger disturbance and usually connotes anger but sometimes perplexity or anxiety.

vexed by her son's failure to clean his room

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Recent Examples of bother

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Say what’s bothering you before resentment takes over the conversation. — Tarot.com, New York Daily News, 1 Sep. 2026 Solo travelers don’t need to bother with table reservations and can jump into the scene at the communal table set aside for parties of one or two. — Jessica Ritz, Travel + Leisure, 30 Aug. 2026

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Moving to a different state wasn’t a bother. — Anthony Aguirre, Miami Herald, 17 June 2026 Rebuilding a compliant testing and governance regime for one market and a looser one for the rest is rarely worth the bother, so the strictest rule tends to become the working standard. — Dara-Abasi Ita, Forbes.com, 10 June 2026 See All Example Sentences for bother

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The lack of federal guidance, conflicting messages and potential barriers to immunizations worry public health officials because vaccination rates are already falling, leading to resurgences of dangerous diseases like measles.

— Rob Stein, NPR, 2 Sep. 2026
Their narrators worry about the corruption of their music scenes by news presenters, magazine writers, major-label scouts, and (for Goetz especially) academics.

— Robert Rubsam, New Yorker, 2 Sep. 2026

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In hurry-and-scurry mode, Katalyst built a robotic spacecraft called LINK, which launched on July 3 to meet up with Swift and haul it to a higher orbit.

— Leonard David, Space.com, 27 Aug. 2026
No matter your hurry, overloading your washing machine will produce a headache of a different sort (and might even cost you more money).

— Mary Catherine McAnnally Scott, Southern Living, 21 Aug. 2026

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In March, a Jackson County judge ordered Millennia to board up the property and fix those nuisances.

— Kendrick Calfee, Kansas City Star, 2 Sep. 2026
The number of bears killed by motor vehicle strikes, euthanized as nuisances because of conflicts with humans or poached in the Central Florida region over the past decade total about 1,900.

— Stephen Hudak, The Orlando Sentinel, 31 Aug. 2026

Definition of nuisance

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West Nile symptoms A full 80% of those infected may not show symptoms, but 20% have flu-like symptoms, such as a fever with headache, body aches, joint pains, vomiting, diarrhea, rash or fatigue.

— Charlotte Observer, Charlotte Observer, 4 Sep. 2026
Cole Burston / Getty Images With so many clubs still in the mix, even scoreboard watching can induce a headache.

— Zack Meisel, New York Times, 4 Sep. 2026

Definition of headache

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The frustration within the Democratic caucus immediately prompted some calls for harsh consequences.

— Zachary Schermele, USA Today, 5 Sep. 2026
The AfD was created in 2013 as a small anti-euro party before morphing into an anti-migrant force that tapped into voter frustration over immigration and the strains many Germans perceive on housing, jobs and public services.

— Erik Kirschbaum, Los Angeles Times, 5 Sep. 2026

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