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How does the verb abash contrast with its synonyms?

Some common synonyms of abash are discomfit, disconcert, embarrass, and rattle. While all these words mean "to distress by confusing or confounding," abash presupposes some initial self-confidence that receives a sudden check, producing shyness, shame, or a feeling of inferiority.

abashed by her swift and cutting retort

When can discomfit be used instead of abash?

Although the words discomfit and abash have much in common, discomfit implies a hampering or frustrating accompanied by confusion.

hecklers discomfited the speaker

In what contexts can disconcert take the place of abash?

The words disconcert and abash can be used in similar contexts, but disconcert implies an upsetting of equanimity or assurance producing uncertainty or hesitancy.

disconcerted by finding so many in attendance

When could embarrass be used to replace abash?

The meanings of embarrass and abash largely overlap; however, embarrass implies some influence that impedes thought, speech, or action.

the question embarrassed her so much she couldn't answer

When is rattle a more appropriate choice than abash?

While the synonyms rattle and abash are close in meaning, rattle implies an agitation that impairs thought and judgment.

rattled by all the television cameras

Example Sentences

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Recent Examples of abash Here, furious parents throw open the cupboard to reveal their daughter’s abashed lover, as younger children look on wide-eyed and the family dog prepares to attack. Susan Delson, WSJ, 20 June 2018 Bloom called him out, and the abashed Harris apologized. Christina Schoellkopf, latimes.com, 15 June 2018 Not easily abashed by body-shamers, Teigen has publicly posted next-to-naked topless photos in the past. Megan Decker, Harper's BAZAAR, 22 May 2018 Hefner was good-natured but rather abashed, diffident, and shy. Jeanie Pyun, The Hollywood Reporter, 2 Oct. 2017 Peverelli seemed slightly abashed at the images’ potential elevation from commerce to art. Rebecca Mead, The New Yorker, 22 May 2017 But there is also a sort of confused, abashed one, often ironic, that acknowledges a problem and tries to work through a particularly American obliviousness. Jill McDonough, New York Times, 21 Apr. 2017
Recent Examples of Synonyms for abash
Verb
  • The Dodgers embarrassed them on the field and then hit the podcast circuit to shame them some more, ridiculing their defense, their baserunning, their lack of composure and even their unnecessary visits to the mound.
    Ian O'Connor, New York Times, 1 Aug. 2025
  • Big yikes: This is a sarcastic phrase to publicly mock or shame someone for a cringey comment, outfit, or behavior and is used to embarrass others in group chats or social media.
    Sherri Gordon, Parents, 21 July 2025
Verb
  • The rest of the members’ faces were left blank and confused at the mention of barking.
    Laura Sirikul, Forbes.com, 5 Aug. 2025
  • Wrong, Krista, to confuse an investment with a subsidy.
    DP Opinion, Denver Post, 2 Aug. 2025
Verb
  • While some may break out in a cold sweat hearing about a passing asteroid, astronomers are almost never flustered by this kind of event.
    Jack Knudson, Discover Magazine, 24 July 2025
  • Siegemund, 37, plays an unorthodox style of tennis that can leave opponents flustered.
    Ryan Canfield, FOXNews.com, 8 July 2025
Verb
  • These numbers are disconcerting for a number of reasons.
    Roberta Matuson, Forbes.com, 4 Aug. 2025
  • The rapidly changing dynamics of Bastrop are disconcerting to a lot of locals who want to retain the small-town feel.
    Karoline Leonard, Austin American Statesman, 30 July 2025
Verb
  • The change of scenery freed the author to rattle herself in the service of her art and, despite continuing to question her abilities, finally declare pride in her fiction.
    Hillary Kelly, The Atlantic, 5 Aug. 2025
  • True to its nickname, the Bounce House was alive with energy — literally — as the section above the visiting locker room shook, rattled and rolled with students bouncing up and down in excitement before kickoff.
    Matt Murschel, The Orlando Sentinel, 5 Aug. 2025

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“Abash.” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/abash. Accessed 20 Aug. 2025.

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