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verb

present participle of despair

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How does the adjective despairing differ from other similar words?

Some common synonyms of despairing are desperate, despondent, and hopeless. While all these words mean "having lost all or nearly all hope," despairing suggests the slipping away of all hope and often despondency.

despairing appeals for the return of the kidnapped child

When is it sensible to use desperate instead of despairing?

While the synonyms desperate and despairing are close in meaning, desperate implies despair that prompts reckless action or violence in the face of defeat or frustration.

one last desperate attempt to turn the tide of battle

When might despondent be a better fit than despairing?

While in some cases nearly identical to despairing, despondent implies a deep dejection arising from a conviction of the uselessness of further effort.

despondent about yet another rejection

Where would hopeless be a reasonable alternative to despairing?

The synonyms hopeless and despairing are sometimes interchangeable, but hopeless suggests despair and the cessation of effort or resistance and often implies acceptance or resignation.

the situation of the trapped miners is hopeless

Example Sentences

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Recent Examples of despairing
Adjective
Rebin carries a despairing sense of hope in him, months later. Cora Engelbrecht, New Yorker, 3 Apr. 2026 Premiering the first of eight episodes on Sunday, March 22, The Comeback’s shaggy, despairing, hilarious, and sometimes baldly sentimental third season spends its first two episodes running through all the horsemen of the Hollywood-pocalypse. Jackson McHenry, Vulture, 20 Mar. 2026
Verb
The book’s tone shifts from philosophical to playful to despairing to sensual, and on around again. The New Yorker, New Yorker, 31 Dec. 2025 These are the people who, despairing of finding their way out honestly, simply smash and bash their way through the corn willy-nilly. Tribune News Service, The Mercury News, 19 Oct. 2024 See All Example Sentences for despairing
Recent Examples of Synonyms for despairing
Adjective
  • The conflict feels contemporary without growing too cynical, and the core relationship stakes seem real without skewing hopeless.
    Alison Foreman, IndieWire, 19 June 2026
  • The situation of Palestinians in Gaza and the West Bank would almost certainly worsen and become more hopeless.
    Thomas Wright, The Atlantic, 19 June 2026
Adjective
  • Today, the predicament is exacerbated by the fact developers tend to avoid these areas, leaving very low-income households in desperate need of family-sized, affordable rental apartments.
    Jeffrey Steele, Forbes.com, 25 June 2026
  • The justices split over whether this was a simple dispute over legal wording or a moral question involving desperate families.
    Los Angeles Times, Los Angeles Times, 25 June 2026
Verb
  • Scammers look for grieving spouses, newly single homeowners and families dealing with estate paperwork.
    Kurt Knutsson, FOXNews.com, 23 June 2026
  • It’s set in a recognizably near-future, where a grieving couple who have recently lost their son in a tragic accident decides to adopt a humanoid child — one that looks and sounds the same as their dead child.
    Ryan Lattanzio, IndieWire, 23 June 2026
Adjective
  • Traditionally cynical and perceptive commentators—not to mention a lot of tired citizens—found themselves, in some accounts, overcome by an unexpected wave of patriotic sentimentality that washed away, at least for a moment, their gnawing doubts.
    Christopher Hooks, Harpers Magazine, 23 June 2026
  • Heston is at his most gleefully cynical as Robert Thorn, a police detective who lives and works in a New York City decimated by environmental deterioration and dwindling resources.
    Jim Hemphill, IndieWire, 23 June 2026
Adjective
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    Christa Joanna Lee, Allure, 23 June 2026
  • Brown and the Celtics have both since denied speculation that the 29-year-old second-team All-NBA selection was unhappy with his role in Boston.
    Peter Sblendorio, New York Daily News, 22 June 2026
Verb
  • Asthma is a common condition, with around 8% of people in the United States – or 28 million people – suffering from it, according to the Asthma and Allergy Foundation of America (AAFA).
    Alexandra Frost, USA Today, 26 June 2026
  • Despite baseball's highest payroll, the Mets are in last place with a 34-47 record, suffering a recent six-game losing streak where they were outscored 54-22 and committed numerous errors.
    Chuck Murr, Forbes.com, 26 June 2026
Adjective
  • Then Greene takes a long, sad subway ride home, and America learns that one of their favorite TV doctors isn't flawless.
    EW Staff, Entertainment Weekly, 25 June 2026
  • Local foodies were sad to hear owner Sylvia Chung (Momma Chung) retired and closed the south Fort Worth restaurant in October of last year.
    Ella Gonzales, Fort Worth Star-Telegram, 22 June 2026
Verb
  • The State of Colorado is mourning this tremendous loss alongside everyone who was impacted by Lynn.
    Jesse Sarles, CBS News, 20 June 2026
  • He, like the objects, is stuck between here and the hereafter, and is mourning a lost love just as a new one introduces herself.
    Brian Seibert, New Yorker, 19 June 2026

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“Despairing.” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/despairing. Accessed 28 Jun. 2026.

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