both·​er | \ ˈbä-t͟hər How to pronounce bother (audio) \
bothered; bothering\ ˈbät͟h-​riŋ How to pronounce bothering (audio) , ˈbä-​t͟hə-​ \

Definition of bother

 (Entry 1 of 2)

transitive verb

1 : to annoy especially by petty provocation : irk It bothers her when people litter. bothered by the itchy tag on his shirt
2 : to intrude upon : pester Don't bother him when he's working.
3 : to cause to be somewhat anxious or concerned My stomach is bothering me. often used interjectionally Oh, bother!

intransitive verb

1 : to become concerned wouldn't bother with details
2 : to take pains (see pain entry 1 sense 4) : take the trouble never bothered to ask



Definition of bother (Entry 2 of 2)

1a : a state of petty discomfort, annoyance, or worry when scenery gets mixed up with our personal bothers all the virtue goes out of it— Edith Wharton
b : something that causes petty annoyance or worry Fixing it would be too much of a bother. Sorry to be such a bother, but I need your help.
2 : fuss, inconvenience doesn't want the bother of filling out all the forms again

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annoy, vex, irk, bother mean to upset a person's composure. annoy implies a wearing on the nerves by persistent petty unpleasantness. their constant complaining annoys us vex implies greater provocation and stronger disturbance and usually connotes anger but sometimes perplexity or anxiety. vexed by her son's failure to clean his room irk stresses difficulty in enduring and the resulting weariness or impatience of spirit. careless waste irks the boss bother suggests interference with comfort or peace of mind. don't bother me while I'm reading

Examples of bother in a Sentence


He's so easygoing. Nothing seems to bother him. Something he said at the meeting has been bothering me. The entire car trip was filled with complaints like, “Mom, David keeps bothering me!” and “Will you tell him to quit bothering me?”. Mother used to cook elaborate dinners, but with only herself to cook for, she doesn't bother anymore. “Should I call later?” “No, don't bother.” I'm not going to bother with the details.


Replacing the windows could be more of a bother than it's worth. I know what a bother driving into the city can be this time of day. “Sorry to bother you.” “That's okay, it's no bother at all.” I considered replacing that part of the floor but decided it wasn't worth the bother. He doesn't want the bother of filling out all those forms again. Will you mail this for me? It will save me the bother of going to the post office.
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Recent Examples on the Web: Verb

First baseman Brandon Belt didn’t bother to charge. John Shea,, "Giants’ Dereck Rodriguez splendid in 1-0 loss to Cardinals," 3 Sep. 2019 When moving house is so expensive, many people may not bother. The Economist, "Why America’s real-estate brokers are such a rip-off," 29 Aug. 2019 The new attack requires computing two such tables, each of which takes weeks of computation—long enough that Wouters didn't bother to finish creating the second one. Andy Greenberg, WIRED, "Hackers Could Steal a Tesla Model S by Cloning Its Key Fob—Again," 27 Aug. 2019 Given these constraints, many doctors don’t bother. Nina Feldman,, "Among hurdles for those with opioid addictions: Getting the drug to treat it," 26 Aug. 2019 And only when the Ravens approached the goal line did cornerbacks bother to give him less than 10 yards of cushion. Jonas Shaffer,, "Finally on field, Marquise Brown shows potential in Ravens’ weather-shortened 26-15 preseason win vs. Eagles," 23 Aug. 2019 In America today, doctors and hospitals typically don't bother to compete on price. Scott W. Atlas For Cnn Business Perspectives, CNN, "Trump's push to make health care prices more transparent is long overdue," 19 Aug. 2019 Border Patrol agents wouldn’t bother to check students’ papers. Obed Manuel, Dallas News, "U.S. citizen’s detention is a reminder that mixed-status families can feel trapped along the border," 4 Aug. 2019 Novices who don't bother to look under the hood might not recognize problems with their data sets or models, leading to overconfidence in biased or inaccurate results. Matthew Hutson, Science | AAAS, "No coding required: Companies make it easier than ever for scientists to use artificial intelligence," 31 July 2019

Recent Examples on the Web: Noun

Even seven-plus minutes with reporters and cameras seemed like a bother. Michael Casagrande |, al, "Terrell vs. Tommy: Tale of Alabama LB’s first hit after knee injury," 12 Aug. 2019 None of this would be so much of a bother if Adams had been raised differently or experienced such violence early on. Steven Marrocco, MMA Junkie, "Juan Adams' disdain for Greg Hardy stems from witnessing domestic abuse as child," 17 July 2019 If missing out on those features isn’t a bother to you, this one stands out as being easier to stick in your pocket. Cameron Faulkner, The Verge, "Here’s where you’ll be able to preorder the Samsung Galaxy Note 10," 7 Aug. 2019 The production quality is high, the songs are catchy and viewers don’t necessarily need to speak English or bother following along with the plot, giving it an international reach. Raisa Bruner, Time, "What's a Jellicle, Anyway? Everything You Need to Know About Cats Before the Movie Adaptation," 18 July 2019 Occasionally, McIlroy's honesty or impishness has landed him in bother. Rob Hodgetts, CNN, "Rory McIlroy: Golf's 'Mozart' keen to 'smell the roses' in historic Open," 17 July 2019 She was preceded in death by her husband of 61 years, Doug Sr; 3 bothers: Richard, Carlton, and Sidney Johnston. Orlando Sentinel,, "Deaths in Central Florida: 6/16," 16 June 2019 My question is why would American Express bother to do this?, "American Express reduces customer’s credit limit because he barely used his credit card: Money Matters," 5 June 2019 Netflix doesn’t have to go to all the bother of creating TV pilots the way networks do in order to figure out what its viewers want to see. Philip Delves Broughton, WSJ, "‘Subscribed’ Review: For a Flat Monthly Fee," 17 July 2018

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First Known Use of bother


circa 1745, in the meaning defined at transitive sense 1


1761, in the meaning defined at sense 2

History and Etymology for bother


of obscure origin

Note: Early attestations strongly associate the word with Ireland, though if bother is authentically Hiberno-English, the interdental consonant must be secondary, perhaps by association with earlier pother entry 1, itself of obscure origin. A hypothetical link with Irish bodhar "deaf, confused" is improbable given that the internal dental consonant in Irish was lost by 1300.


noun derivative of bother entry 1

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English Language Learners Definition of bother

 (Entry 1 of 2)

: to cause (someone) to feel troubled, worried, or concerned
: to annoy (someone) : to cause (someone) to feel annoyed
: to take the time to do something : to make an effort to do something



English Language Learners Definition of bother (Entry 2 of 2)

: someone or something that is annoying or that causes trouble
: trouble or difficulty


both·​er | \ ˈbät͟h-ər How to pronounce bother (audio) \
bothered; bothering

Kids Definition of bother

 (Entry 1 of 2)

1 : to trouble (someone) in body or mind : annoy bothered by flies
2 : to cause to worry Your illness bothers me.
3 : to take the time or trouble Don't bother to dress up.
4 : to intrude upon : interrupt Don't bother me while I'm on the phone.



Kids Definition of bother (Entry 2 of 2)

1 : someone or something that is annoying This project is such a bother.
2 : commotion The return of Mr. Bilbo Baggins created quite a disturbance … The legal bother, indeed, lasted for years.— J. R. R. Tolkien, The Hobbit
3 : a state of worry or annoyance It's not worth the bother.

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