mess over

verb

Definition of mess overnext
slang
as in to abuse
to inflict physical or emotional harm upon her no-good boyfriend has been messing her over for years

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  1. abuse
  2. bully
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  • Some evidence of harms from testosterone stem from people who abuse the hormone, taking levels well above what would be used to bring a patient with hypogonadism into a normal range.
    — Beth Mole, ArsTechnica, 17 July 2026
  • The textbook catalogs the ways prosecutors can abuse their powers.
    — Joaquin Sapien, ProPublica, 17 July 2026
Definition of abuse
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  • Two weeks after being bullied off X by gangs of LIB truthers, German soccer fan Freddy, whose wholesome social media posts on American culture during his travels around the country early in the World Cup, has returned to the app.
    — Joe Kinsey OutKick, FOXNews.com, 13 July 2026
  • Children who are bullied may also experience back-to-school anxiety.
    — Kimberly Zapata, Parents, 12 July 2026
Definition of bully
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“Mess over.” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/mess%20over. Accessed 20 Jul. 2026.

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