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Definition of commiserate (with)next

commiseration

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Synonym Chooser

How does the noun commiseration contrast with its synonyms?

Some common synonyms of commiseration are compassion, condolence, pity, and sympathy. While all these words mean "the act or capacity for sharing the painful feelings of another," commiseration suggests pity expressed outwardly in exclamations, tears, or words of comfort.

murmurs of commiseration filled the loser's headquarters

In what contexts can compassion take the place of commiseration?

The words compassion and commiseration can be used in similar contexts, but compassion implies pity coupled with an urgent desire to aid or to spare.

treats the homeless with great compassion

When is condolence a more appropriate choice than commiseration?

While the synonyms condolence and commiseration are close in meaning, condolence applies chiefly to formal expression of grief to one who has suffered loss.

expressed their condolences to the widow

When is it sensible to use pity instead of commiseration?

While in some cases nearly identical to commiseration, pity implies tender or sometimes slightly contemptuous sorrow for one in misery or distress.

felt pity for the captives

When could sympathy be used to replace commiseration?

The words sympathy and commiseration are synonyms, but do differ in nuance. Specifically, sympathy often suggests a tender concern but can also imply a power to enter into another's emotional experience of any sort.

went to my best friend for sympathy
in sympathy with her desire to locate her natural parents

Example Sentences

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Recent Examples of commiserate (with)
Noun
If Panahi’s interview had been a joyless commiseration-fest, that would have been more than acceptable. Bethy Squires, Vulture, 6 Mar. 2026 In an embarrassing moment for Amazon, numerous outlets are reporting that bosses accidentally alerted the AWS team a day early about the layoffs, having sent a commiseration email and meeting invitation by mistake. Max Goldbart, Deadline, 28 Jan. 2026 That clash of emotions — celebration of a dream season and commiseration over its bitter conclusion — sat on the central clubhouse table. Mitch Bannon, New York Times, 2 Nov. 2025 Community is important in these types of places, for sparring, for conversation, for commiseration. Abby Ellin, Condé Nast Traveler, 2 May 2024
Recent Examples of Synonyms for commiserate (with)
Verb
  • Instead, we are ridiculed and pitied globally.
    Voice of the People, New York Daily News, 11 Apr. 2026
  • So pity the ordinary property owners who have to pay the taxman two times every year.
    The Editorial Board, Chicago Tribune, 30 Mar. 2026
Noun
  • Those fans had reliever Edwin Diaz’s sympathy.
    Bill Plunkett, Oc Register, 18 Apr. 2026
  • Hundreds have been arrested in countries across the Gulf region, according to the United Nations’ high commissioner for human rights, some on allegations of expressing sympathies for Iran’s attacks and for posting images of Iranian bombardments to social media.
    Jane Lytvynenko, NBC news, 17 Apr. 2026
Noun
  • Stay well, everyone, and know that small acts of kindness count.
    Helen Dennis, Daily News, 19 Apr. 2026
  • In the South, manners are all about genuine kindness and compassion.
    Katherine Owen, Southern Living, 18 Apr. 2026
Noun
  • Review a budget, cancel unused subscriptions, or price your art or services more fairly, while remembering that compassion includes paying yourself on time.
    Tarot.com, Chicago Tribune, 15 Apr. 2026
  • Cass High officials said the school will carry forward Dean's commitment to students and his example of compassion and dedication.
    Zachary Bynum, CBS News, 14 Apr. 2026

Cite this Entry

“Commiserate (with).” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/commiserate%20%28with%29. Accessed 22 Apr. 2026.

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