confidante

noun

con·​fi·​dante ˈkän-fə-ˌdänt How to pronounce confidante (audio)
also -ˌdant
-dənt
Synonyms of confidantenext
: confidant
especially : one who is a woman

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Is it confident or confidant? (Or is it confidante?)

If you find yourself unsure whether you should choose confident or confidant don’t feel bad; confidant comes to English from the French word confident, and when the word first entered our language it was often spelled that way, rather than as confidant. The difference is quite simple: confidant is a noun (meaning "a person in whom you confide things"), and confident is an adjective (defined as “having confidence”). You may well be confident in your confidant, but you would not be confidant in your confident. Although this distinction has not always been observed by writers, confidante is generally used for a female confidant. The word confidant is more frequently used to describe a man, but it may be applied to either gender.

Examples of confidante in a Sentence

She was her closest friend and confidante. only her closest confidantes know what she's going through
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The documents were disclosed under the Epstein Files Transparency Act, the law enacted after months of public and political pressure that requires the government to open its files on the late financier and his confidante and onetime girlfriend, Ghislaine Maxwell. Arkansas Online, 31 Jan. 2026 Adjoa Andoh as Lady Danbury Maneuvering society behind the scenes is the esteemed Lady Agatha Danbury, also a close confidante of the queen. Saman Shafiq, USA Today, 29 Jan. 2026 After almost every jump, Gu huddles with her mother and confidante, Yan, to review footage Yan recorded on her phone. Sean Gregory, Time, 22 Jan. 2026 The childhood confidantes are set to collaborate once again for Netflix's upcoming kidnapping crime film Animals. Zoey Lyttle, PEOPLE, 16 Jan. 2026 See All Example Sentences for confidante

Word History

Etymology

borrowed from French confidente, feminine of confident confidant

First Known Use

1662, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of confidante was in 1662

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“Confidante.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/confidante. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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confidante

noun
con·​fi·​dante ˈkän-fə-ˌdant How to pronounce confidante (audio)
-ˌdänt
: confidant
especially : one who is a woman

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