confidant

noun

con·​fi·​dant ˈkän-fə-ˌdänt How to pronounce confidant (audio)
also -ˌdant
-dənt
Synonyms of confidantnext
: one to whom secrets are entrusted
especially : intimate
shared the information only with trusted confidants

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If you're confident of the trustworthiness of your confidants, you're tuned into the origins of the word confidant. The word comes, via French, from the Italian confidente, meaning "trusting, having trust in," from Latin confīdere, meaning "to put one’s trust in, have confidence in.” Other descendants of confīdere in English include confide, confidence, confident, and confidential, all of which ultimately have Latin fīdere, meaning "to trust (in), rely (on)," as their root. Confidant (and its variant confidante, used especially of a woman) and confident are often confused, a topic about which we have plenty to say.

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Is it confident or confidant? (Or is it confidante?)

If you find yourself unsure whether you should choose confident or confidant don’t feel bad; confidant comes to English from the French word confident, and when the word first entered our language it was often spelled that way, rather than as confidant. The difference is quite simple: confidant is a noun (meaning "a person in whom you confide things"), and confident is an adjective (defined as “having confidence”). You may well be confident in your confidant, but you would not be confidant in your confident. Although this distinction has not always been observed by writers, confidante is generally used for a female confidant. The word confidant is more frequently used to describe a man, but it may be applied to either gender.

Examples of confidant in a Sentence

He is a trusted confidant of the president. she's my confidant; I tell her everything without reservation
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Since starring together in the 2014 film Selma, the two have remained close confidants. Mecca Pryor, Essence, 12 Jan. 2026 His first permanent gig came on Judging Amy (1999–2005) as the title character’s close confidant. Tanya Melendez, Entertainment Weekly, 6 Jan. 2026 Rodríguez, 56, is a powerful figure and longtime confidant of Maduro, and she has been backed thus far by Venezuela's military commanders. CBS News, 6 Jan. 2026 Rodriguez, 56, has long been a confidant and backer of Maduro. Louis Casiano, FOXNews.com, 5 Jan. 2026 See All Example Sentences for confidant

Word History

Etymology

borrowed from French confident, borrowed from Italian confidente, noun derivative of confidente "trusting, having trust in," borrowed from Latin confīdent-, confīdens, present participle of confīdere "to put one's trust in, have confidence in" — more at confide

First Known Use

1646, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of confidant was in 1646

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“Confidant.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/confidant. Accessed 15 Jan. 2026.

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confidant

noun
con·​fi·​dant ˈkän-fə-ˌdant How to pronounce confidant (audio)
-ˌdänt
: a person to whom secrets are entrusted : a close friend

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