confidante

noun

con·​fi·​dante ˈkän-fə-ˌdänt How to pronounce confidante (audio)
also -ˌdant, 
-dənt
Synonyms of confidante
: confidant
especially : one who is a woman

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Is it confident or confidant? (Or is it confidante?)

If you find yourself unsure whether you should choose confident or confidant don’t feel bad; confidant comes to English from the French word confident, and when the word first entered our language it was often spelled that way, rather than as confidant. The difference is quite simple: confidant is a noun (meaning "a person in whom you confide things"), and confident is an adjective (defined as “having confidence”). You may well be confident in your confidant, but you would not be confidant in your confident. Although this distinction has not always been observed by writers, confidante is generally used for a female confidant. The word confidant is more frequently used to describe a man, but it may be applied to either gender.

Examples of confidante in a Sentence

She was her closest friend and confidante. only her closest confidantes know what she's going through
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Encouragement from his longtime confidante and collaborator helped the comedian write about the loss of his beloved home before Reiner’s tragic killing in December 2025 alongside his wife, Michele, in Brentwood. — Andrea Flores, Los Angeles Times, 15 Oct. 2026 Writers would deliberately distort certain letters to convey their identities to close confidantes and obscure them from others. — Harmeet Kaur, CNN Money, 8 Oct. 2026 Summering with her sister One of Kidman’s closest confidantes and travel companions is her sister, Antonia. — Caroline Blair, PEOPLE, 12 Sep. 2026 In the course of the renovation, Ashe became one of Taylor’s closest confidantes. — Ingrid Abramovitch, Architectural Digest, 10 Sep. 2026 See All Example Sentences for confidante

Word History

Etymology

borrowed from French confidente, feminine of confident confidant

First Known Use

1662, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of confidante was in 1662

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“Confidante.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/confidante. Accessed 17 Oct. 2026.

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confidante

noun
: confidant
especially : one who is a woman

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