tough love

noun

: love or affectionate concern expressed in a stern or unsentimental manner (as through discipline) especially to promote responsible behavior

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Many episodes featured Stanger giving tough love to unkempt potential matches and the picky millionaires. Emy Lacroix, PEOPLE, 22 Jan. 2026 Many chatbots do tend to hype users up rather than giving tough love or challenging their ideas. Faith Hill, The Atlantic, 17 Jan. 2026 It’s been a long journey with Xhekaj, who has described his relationship with his coach as a father/son dynamic, with some instances of tough love that were widely misinterpreted. Arpon Basu, New York Times, 11 Jan. 2026 These words upset the European elites, but were tough love for our old allies. John Seiler, Oc Register, 22 Dec. 2025 See All Example Sentences for tough love

Word History

First Known Use

1968, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of tough love was in 1968

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“Tough love.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/tough%20love. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.

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