tough love

noun

: love or affectionate concern expressed in a stern or unsentimental manner (as through discipline) especially to promote responsible behavior

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The remedy for upsets is to be sympathetic and fierce, making tough love the best approach. Lisa Stardust, Refinery29, 30 Jan. 2026 Doctors wouldn’t perform an outpatient procedure on him due to his size, and his then-girlfriend (now wife) gave him a tiny bit of tough love, asking him to lose enough weight to qualify for the procedure. Mike Wehner, Big Think, 29 Jan. 2026 Many episodes featured Stanger giving tough love to unkempt potential matches and the picky millionaires. Emy Lacroix, PEOPLE, 22 Jan. 2026 Many chatbots do tend to hype users up rather than giving tough love or challenging their ideas. Faith Hill, The Atlantic, 17 Jan. 2026 See All Example Sentences for tough love

Word History

First Known Use

1968, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of tough love was in 1968

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“Tough love.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/tough%20love. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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