hot mess

noun

plural hot messes
1
informal : something or someone that is emphatically a mess: such as
a
: something that is disastrously bad or chaotic (as due to mishandling or misconduct)
My life was a hot mess.
His latest outing, to a hot mess of a boutique hotel in New Mexico, is just as full of withering asides and bleeped-out F-bombs.TV Guide
b
: a disorganized, disheveled, or self-destructive person
She's a hard-drinking hot mess who scavenges the streets for castoff furniture and clothing that she spruces up and sometimes sells; how she survives in contemporary Los Angeles is one of the movie's biggest mysteries.Sheri Linden
also : such a person who is at the same time attractive or sexy
However, Everett actually is a hot mess when she performs. Her stage presence is erotic and chaotic, her big blond body wrapped in something low-cut and sheer. Molly Adams
2
archaic
a
: a hot dish especially of soft or pulpy food
… there was a stove over which our guides made a hot mess of flour and water which passed for soup.Edwin Swift Balch
b
: a hot mixture of ingredients cooked or eaten together
They were supping or breakfasting together off a hot mess of meat and vegetables …Henry Vizetelly

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The problem for the rest of the league is that the Eagles can be a hot mess for a month and then immediately turn back into the team that dominated the Super Bowl a year ago. Josh Kendall, New York Times, 28 Oct. 2025 Basically, Anthony Weaver’s unit has been a hot mess this season. Omar Kelly october 23, Miami Herald, 23 Oct. 2025 When the industry is a hot mess, fairy-tale moments are just that: outliers. Dana Harris-Bridson, IndieWire, 13 Oct. 2025 The album is a hot mess of conflicted emotions, empty braggadocio, poor technique, and heartbreaking yet tiresome crying jags. Mosi Reeves, Rolling Stone, 29 Sep. 2025 See All Example Sentences for hot mess

Word History

First Known Use

circa 1772, in the meaning defined at sense 2b

Time Traveler
The first known use of hot mess was circa 1772

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“Hot mess.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/hot%20mess. Accessed 6 Nov. 2025.

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