fray

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noun (1)

ˈfrā 

: a usually disorderly or protracted fight, struggle, or dispute

Fighting there could easily draw neighboring nations into the fray.

—Blaine Harden

… the patrician statesman who stood above the fray.

—Richard D. Hylton

fray

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verb (1)

frayed; fraying; frays

transitive verb

1

a

: to wear (something, such as an edge of cloth) by or as if by rubbing : fret

b

: to separate the threads at the edge of

2

: strain, irritate

… a botched new bus system … which has frayed tempers.

—The Economist

intransitive verb

1

: to wear out or into shreds

2

: to show signs of strain

fraying nerves

fray

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noun (2)

: a raveled place or worn spot (as on fabric)

fray

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verb (2)

frayed; fraying; frays

transitive verb

archaic

: scare

also : to frighten away

Synonyms

Noun (1)

• battle
• struggle
• fight
• effort

Verb (1)

• erode
• wear

Examples of fray in a Sentence

Noun (1)

another generation of scientists entered the fray to find a cure for AIDS

a troubled youth always getting into frays at school

school officials broke up the fray and gave all guilty parties detention

Verb (1)

constant rubbing against the rock face has badly frayed our climbing rope

Recent Examples on the Web

Noun

Despite the dire predictions of many, Israel's campaign against Iran's nuclear program (and America's assistance to it) didn't lead either Russia or the People's Republic of China (PRC) to wade into the fray in defense of the Islamic Republic, generating a wider war. —Ilan Berman, MSNBC Newsweek, 8 July 2025

Democrats are joining the four-letter fray with words once considered off limits — other than behind closed doors or in small groups — now more common. —South Florida Sun Sentinel, Sun Sentinel, 7 July 2025

Verb

In addition, relations with allies are frayed at worst, strained at least. —Ken Roberts, Forbes.com, 15 July 2025

Mile after mile of the region’s precious tree canopy was badly frayed or destroyed. —Miami Herald, 11 July 2025

Word History

Etymology

Verb (1)

Middle English fraien, from Anglo-French freier, froier to rub, from Latin fricare — more at friction

Verb (2) and Noun (1)

Middle English fraien, short for affraien to affray

First Known Use

Noun (1)

14th century, in the meaning defined above

Verb (1)

15th century, in the meaning defined at transitive sense 1a

Noun (2)

1630, in the meaning defined above

Verb (2)

14th century, in the meaning defined above

Phrases Containing fray

• above the fray
• tempers begin to fray

Rhymes for fray

• ay
• bay
• bey
• brae
• cay
• chez
• dey
• dray
• fay
• fey
• flay
• frey

Kids Definition

fray

1 of 2 noun

ˈfrā 

: an usually disorderly or long fight, struggle, or dispute

fray

2 of 2 verb

1

a

: to wear (as an edge of cloth) by or as if by rubbing

b

: to separate the threads at the edge of

cutoff jeans with frayed edges

2

: to show or cause to show signs of strain

nerves were beginning to fray

Etymology

Noun

from earlier fray "fright," from affray "quarrel, fight," derived from early French affreer "to attack, disturb, frighten" — related to afraid

Verb

Middle English fraien "to fray," from early French freier, froier "to rub," from Latin fricare "to rub" — related to friction