self-control

noun

self-con·​trol ˌself-kən-ˈtrōl How to pronounce self-control (audio)
Synonyms of self-controlnext
: restraint exercised over one's own impulses, emotions, or desires
self-controlled adjective

Synonyms of self-control

Examples of self-control in a Sentence

toddlers have very little self-control she could be passionate and intense, but generally exercised steely self-control in the company of strangers
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People who are habitually more compassionate, patient and self-controlled tend to experience better well-being. Michael Prinzing, The Conversation, 23 Jan. 2026 Trump, though, lacks both the self-control required to move slowly and the connection to reality required to understand what is and isn’t popular outside his most committed base. Quinta Jurecic, The Atlantic, 20 Jan. 2026 Mars in Capricorn reminds us that real strength comes from consistency and self-control. Valerie Mesa, PEOPLE, 16 Jan. 2026 Focusing on connection, basic needs, and follow-through helps build trust and teaches kids self-control over time. Leslie Garisto Pfaff, Parents, 20 Dec. 2025 See All Example Sentences for self-control

Word History

First Known Use

1653, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-control was in 1653

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“Self-control.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-control. Accessed 30 Jan. 2026.

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self-control

noun
self-con·​trol
ˌself-kən-ˈtrōl
: control over one's own impulses, emotions, or acts
self-controlled
-ˈtrōld
adjective

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