self-control

noun

self-con·​trol ˌself-kən-ˈtrōl How to pronounce self-control (audio)
: restraint exercised over one's own impulses, emotions, or desires
self-controlled adjective

Synonyms of self-control

Examples of self-control in a Sentence

toddlers have very little self-control she could be passionate and intense, but generally exercised steely self-control in the company of strangers
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For all the posturing about discipline, spirituality, and self-control, rappers are just as entangled in the rumor economy as their listeners. Jayson Buford, Rolling Stone, 3 Nov. 2025 People with positive parenting feelings exhibited more connectivity changes in parts of the brain that are important for self-control (the middle frontal gyrus) and empathy (the supramarginal gyrus). Anthony Vaccaro, Scientific American, 29 Oct. 2025 Safdie perceptively locates the protagonist’s troubling inner contradictions—the atavistic fury that drives him to compete and the intense self-control that competition demands—but dramatizes such outer crises as opioid addiction and conflict with his girlfriend (Emily Blunt) only schematically. Vince Aletti, New Yorker, 3 Oct. 2025 Applied here, an EED theory would try to show both a genuine loss of self-control and a reasonable explanation for that loss. Robert Alexander, MSNBC Newsweek, 19 Sep. 2025 See All Example Sentences for self-control

Word History

First Known Use

1653, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of self-control was in 1653

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“Self-control.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-control. Accessed 9 Nov. 2025.

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self-control

noun
self-con·​trol
ˌself-kən-ˈtrōl
: control over one's own impulses, emotions, or acts
self-controlled
-ˈtrōld
adjective

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