self-control

noun

self-con·​trol ˌself-kən-ˈtrōl How to pronounce self-control (audio)
: restraint exercised over one's own impulses, emotions, or desires
self-controlled adjective

Examples of self-control in a Sentence

toddlers have very little self-control she could be passionate and intense, but generally exercised steely self-control in the company of strangers
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At many crucial moments (including in Lucy and Harry’s first few dates), this stillness is established with the natural cool of self-control and professionalism and then veers into an astonishing near-sculptural artifice. Richard Brody, New Yorker, 13 June 2025 Research even suggests that delaying goal failure, rather than giving in immediately when you’re tempted to engage in a behavior that defeats your goals, helps maintain a positive self-perception of self-control. Mark Travers, Forbes.com, 9 June 2025 The mega-rich like Musk don’t exactly have a huge degree of self-awareness or self-control. Philip Elliott, Time, 6 June 2025 Studies have found that decision fatigue can impair attention, self-control and judgment. Mark Travers, Forbes.com, 26 May 2025 See All Example Sentences for self-control

Word History

First Known Use

1653, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-control was in 1653

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“Self-control.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-control. Accessed 24 Jun. 2025.

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self-control

noun
self-con·​trol
ˌself-kən-ˈtrōl
: control over one's own impulses, emotions, or acts
self-controlled
-ˈtrōld
adjective

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