passive-aggressive

adjective

pas·​sive-ag·​gres·​sive ˈpa-siv-ə-ˈgre-siv How to pronounce passive-aggressive (audio)
: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by the expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive passive way (as through procrastination and stubbornness)
It is passive-aggressive behavior, the donning of a mask of amiability that conceals raw antagonism toward one's competitors, even one's friends.Hilary De Vries
A passive-aggressive manager eschews open hostilities, in part because he feels distinctly uncomfortable with them.Walter Kiechel III
passive-aggressive noun

Examples of passive-aggressive in a Sentence

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And that, passive-aggressive or not, is a properly mild punishment. Judith Martin, Mercury News, 28 May 2026 Conversations could feel emotionally loaded, passive-aggressive and difficult to navigate, especially if those involved are going above and beyond to be in control. Valerie Mesa, PEOPLE, 28 May 2026 Drilling this dichotomy further into our minds is the passive-aggressive argument between Danny and Nia in front of a literal rollercoaster during the group trip to San Diego. Ile-Ife Okantah, Vulture, 7 May 2026 As a result, vaguebooking becomes a passive-aggressive pacifier to soothe the discomfort of explicitly addressing disagreements and communicating one’s feelings. Charles Trepany, USA Today, 28 Apr. 2026 See All Example Sentences for passive-aggressive

Word History

First Known Use

1945, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of passive-aggressive was in 1945

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“Passive-aggressive.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/passive-aggressive. Accessed 5 Jun. 2026.

Medical Definition

passive-aggressive

1 of 2 adjective
: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive way (as through procrastination, stubbornness, and unwillingness to communicate)
a passive-aggressive personality
passive-aggressively adverb

passive-aggressive

2 of 2 noun
: a passive-aggressive individual
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