passive-aggressive

adjective

pas·​sive-ag·​gres·​sive ˈpa-siv-ə-ˈgre-siv How to pronounce passive-aggressive (audio)
: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by the expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive passive way (as through procrastination and stubbornness)
It is passive-aggressive behavior, the donning of a mask of amiability that conceals raw antagonism toward one's competitors, even one's friends.Hilary De Vries
A passive-aggressive manager eschews open hostilities, in part because he feels distinctly uncomfortable with them.Walter Kiechel III
passive-aggressive noun

Examples of passive-aggressive in a Sentence

Recent Examples on the Web The prickly relationship between Suzie and her prickly, passive-aggressive mother-in-law, Noriko (actor, singer, woodcut artist Judy Ongg, quite wonderful) is intentionally frustrating and beautifully played. Robert Lloyd, Los Angeles Times, 10 July 2024 Joy and company must make room for a new set of emotions, led by Anxiety, an orange-toned bundle of nerves who talks a mile a minute, sports a passive-aggressive grimace of a smile, and offers ten solutions for every problem; even her hair seems to be multitasking. Justin Chang, The New Yorker, 17 June 2024 Such one-liners can’t compare to the memorable quips of a Tyrion Lannister or an Olenna Tyrell, and make even the usually entertaining Small Council meetings among passive-aggressive royal advisers feel perfunctory. Shirley Li, The Atlantic, 16 June 2024 The mother, Ellen (Kyra Sedgwick), is a micromanaging, passive-aggressive control freak. Jordan Mintzer, The Hollywood Reporter, 14 June 2024 See all Example Sentences for passive-aggressive 

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Word History

First Known Use

1945, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of passive-aggressive was in 1945

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“Passive-aggressive.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/passive-aggressive. Accessed 27 Jul. 2024.

Medical Definition

passive-aggressive

1 of 2 adjective
: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive way (as through procrastination, stubbornness, and unwillingness to communicate)
a passive-aggressive personality
passive-aggressively adverb

passive-aggressive

2 of 2 noun
: a passive-aggressive individual
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