ingratiate

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verb

in·​gra·​ti·​ate in-ˈgrā-shē-ˌāt How to pronounce ingratiate (audio)
ingratiated; ingratiating
Synonyms of ingratiate

transitive verb

: to gain favor or favorable acceptance for by deliberate effort
usually used with with
ingratiate themselves with the community leaders.William Attwood
ingratiation noun
ingratiatory adjective

ingratiation

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noun

in·​gra·​ti·​a·​tion -ˌgrāshēˈāshən How to pronounce ingratiation (audio)
plural -s
1
: the act of ingratiating : process of getting oneself in favor
practice the various arts of ingratiation
2
: something that ingratiates
American art … had no native conviction with which to resist this wealth of ingratiationC. D. Maginnis

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When you ingratiate yourself, you put yourself in someone’s good graces in order to gain their approval or favor. While the word ingratiate does not necessarily imply that your behavior is obsequious or otherwise improper, the word may be used disapprovingly by those who distrust your motives. The word entered English in the early 1600s from the combining of the Latin noun gratia, meaning “grace” or “favor,” with the English prefix in-. Gratia comes from the adjective gratus, meaning “pleasing, grateful.” Gratus has, over the centuries, ingratiated itself well with the English language as the ancestor of a whole host of words including gratuitous, congratulate, and grace.

Examples of ingratiate in a Sentence

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If a debtor refused to coöperate, Pitman might ingratiate himself, explaining, truthfully, that having the key sure would help him out, or that, without it, the lienholder would bundle the cost of making a new one into the price of getting the vehicle out of hock. Paige Williams, New Yorker, 22 June 2026 No doubt the Cady of this Cape Fear has the intelligence to try the same tactics, but one of the major ways the TV adaptation has distinguished itself from the movies — and has, finally, gotten itself into a groove — is that Cady has worked to ingratiate himself with the Bowdens. Scott Tobias, Vulture, 19 June 2026 The interview is also likely to touch on how Epstein was able to ingratiate himself with Gates just three years after pleading guilty to charges of soliciting a minor for prostitution. Lauren Peller, ABC News, 10 June 2026 Unlike the original, Ludwig Kaiser is fluent in Spanish and used this to ingratiate himself into the culture of Lucha Libre. Alfred Konuwa, Forbes.com, 30 May 2026 See All Example Sentences for ingratiate

Word History

Etymology

Verb

in- entry 2 + Latin gratia grace

First Known Use

Verb

1621, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of ingratiate was in 1621

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“Ingratiate.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/ingratiate. Accessed 25 Jun. 2026.

Kids Definition

ingratiate

verb
in·​gra·​ti·​ate in-ˈgrā-shē-ˌāt How to pronounce ingratiate (audio)
ingratiated; ingratiating
: to gain favor or acceptance for by deliberate effort
quickly ingratiated herself with her new pupils
ingratiation noun

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