for·​bear | \ fȯr-ˈber How to pronounce forbear (audio) , fər- \
forbore\ fȯr-​ˈbȯr How to pronounce forbear (audio) , fər-​ \; forborne\ fȯr-​ˈbȯrn How to pronounce forbear (audio) , fər-​ \; forbearing

Definition of forbear

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transitive verb

1 : to hold oneself back from especially with an effort forbore mentioning the incident tried to forbear making rash judgments
2 obsolete : to do without
3 obsolete : to leave alone : shun forbear his presence— William Shakespeare

intransitive verb

1 : hold back, abstain have forborne from taking part in any controversy— Abraham Lincoln
2 : to control oneself when provoked : be patient forbore with his friend's failings



less common spelling of forebear

: ancestor, forefather also : precursor usually used in plural His forebears fought in the American Civil War.

Other Words from forbear


forbearer noun

Examples of forbear in a Sentence

Verb He carefully forbore any mention of her name for fear of upsetting them. We decided to forbear provoking him any further. We decided to forbear from provoking him any further. He forebore to mention her name.
Recent Examples on the Web: Verb So, if a person is enacting their right to resistance, then bystanders have an obligation to forbear and not to interfere. TheWeek, 12 Apr. 2020 But crucially, the FCC did not forbear from a few parts of Title II that protect consumers in other ways. Jon Brodkin, Ars Technica, 12 July 2017

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First Known Use of forbear


before the 12th century, in the meaning defined at transitive sense 2

History and Etymology for forbear


Middle English forberen, from Old English forberan to endure, do without, from for- + beran to bear

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“Forbear.” Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, Accessed 11 Aug. 2022.

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for·​bear | \ fȯr-ˈber How to pronounce forbear (audio) \
forbore\ -​ˈbȯr \; forborne\ -​ˈbȯrn \; forbearing

Kids Definition of forbear

1 : to hold back He forbore from hitting the bully back.
2 : to be patient when annoyed or troubled

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