coy

1 of 2

adjective

1
a
: marked by cute, coquettish, or artful playfulness
using coy tricks to attract attention
b
: shrinking from contact or familiarity
"'Tis but a kiss I beg, Why art thou coy?"William Shakespeare
2
: showing reluctance to make a definite commitment
a coy response
coyly adverb
coyness noun

coy

2 of 2

verb

coyed; coying; coys

transitive verb

obsolete : caress

intransitive verb

archaic : to act coyly (see coy entry 1)
Choose the Right Synonym for coy

shy, bashful, diffident, modest, coy mean not inclined to be forward.

shy implies a timid reserve and a shrinking from familiarity or contact with others.

shy with strangers

bashful implies a frightened or hesitant shyness characteristic of childhood and adolescence.

a bashful boy out on his first date

diffident stresses a distrust of one's own ability or opinion that causes hesitation in acting or speaking.

felt diffident about raising an objection

modest suggests absence of undue confidence or conceit.

modest about her success

coy implies a pretended shyness.

put off by her coy manner

Examples of coy in a Sentence

Adjective It is distinctly odd to read a whole page dedicated to Hitler's life and character without a reference to his anti-Semitism. To say that Swiss banks contained gold coming from the bank accounts, the jewelry boxes, and the teeth of "concentration camp victims" is a little coy. Ian Buruma, New Republic, 31 Jan. 2000
Rival camps are terrified that Bush will reject federal matching funds and the campaign-spending limits they impose, and Bush's aides are coy on the subject. John F. Dickerson, Time, 8 Mar. 1999
And there's Julia, the charming "chatterbot" (a text-based computer character), whose coy pickup banter echoes that of real-life Internet flirts. Michiko Kakutani, Albany (New York) Times-Union, 20 Aug. 1997
I didn't like her coy manner. He gave a coy answer.
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Adjective
The real Democratic conversation about a post-Trump agenda won’t get underway until 2027, when their presidential candidates stop being so coy about what brought them to Charleston and Nashua. David Weigel, semafor.com, 18 July 2025 After the former Philadelphia Eagles player saw his brother's reaction, Travis gave him a coy shrug. Charlotte Phillipp, People.com, 13 July 2025 For days leading up to that move, Trump was coy about his intentions as the world watched and wondered where American intervention in another Middle Eastern war might lead. Ronald J. Hansen, AZCentral.com, 3 July 2025 If the brothers are coy and circumspect about their personal lives, their working relationship is slightly less obtuse. Katherine Turman, Los Angeles Times, 28 May 2025 See All Example Sentences for coy

Word History

Etymology

Adjective and Verb

Middle English, quiet, shy, from Anglo-French quoi, quei, koi quiet, from Latin quietus

First Known Use

Adjective

14th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1b

Verb

14th century, in the meaning defined at transitive sense

Time Traveler
The first known use of coy was in the 14th century

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Cite this Entry

“Coy.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/coy. Accessed 19 Aug. 2025.

Kids Definition

coy

adjective
ˈkȯi
1
2
: marked by cute or sly playfulness or pretended shyness
using coy tricks to attract attention
coyly adverb
coyness noun

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