courtly love


: a late medieval conventionalized code prescribing conduct and emotions of ladies and their lovers

Examples of courtly love in a Sentence

Recent Examples on the Web The association of Valentine's Day with romantic love can be traced back to the Middle Ages when the notion of courtly love flourished. Maeghan Dolph, Fox News, 14 Feb. 2024 Based on several ancient saints (perhaps as many as four different religious people), the day came to be associated with courtly love in the Middle Ages, and still later came to be associated primarily with cards, chocolates and roses. Jeff Burkhart, The Mercury News, 14 Feb. 2024 All Iran was a garden in the poetry of its local hero Ferdowsi, Ali explained; the same man had laid down both the outlines of a legal system and a code of courtly love. Matthew Gavin Frank, Harper's Magazine, 14 Dec. 2022 The name for our modern holiday comes from St. Valentine of Terni, a third-century Roman saint, who has become linked with the idea of courtly love. Leada Gore |, al, 14 Feb. 2023 Ser Criston Cole could have walked right off the page of one of these tales, but his view of courtly love presents a more honest, uncomfortable reality: male entitlement, and the anger that swiftly comes when a woman steps off her pedestal and tries to exert her own will. Philip Ellis, Men's Health, 21 Sep. 2022 Indeed, the rituals of courtly love were used to break Anne. Tina Brown, New York Times, 15 Dec. 2022 Her insistence that Christian woo her with wit isn’t a coquette’s trick of putting her beau through the ritualized paces of courtly love but a smart woman’s search for a partner, a worthy match. Alexandra Schwartz, The New Yorker, 18 Apr. 2022

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Word History

First Known Use

1702, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of courtly love was in 1702

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“Courtly love.” Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, Accessed 16 Jul. 2024.

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