condolence

noun
con·​do·​lence | \ kən-ˈdō-lən(t)s also ˈkän-də- How to pronounce condolence (audio) \

Definition of condolence

1 : sympathy with another in sorrow
2 : an expression of sympathy usually plural The bereaved family received many condolences.

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pity, compassion, commiseration, condolence, sympathy mean the act or capacity for sharing the painful feelings of another. pity implies tender or sometimes slightly contemptuous sorrow for one in misery or distress. felt pity for the captives compassion implies pity coupled with an urgent desire to aid or to spare. treats the homeless with great compassion commiseration suggests pity expressed outwardly in exclamations, tears, or words of comfort. murmurs of commiseration filled the loser's headquarters condolence applies chiefly to formal expression of grief to one who has suffered loss. expressed their condolences to the widow sympathy often suggests a tender concern but can also imply a power to enter into another's emotional experience of any sort. went to my best friend for sympathy in sympathy with her desire to locate her natural parents

Condolence and Condolences

When used in the singular, condolence generally refers to sympathetic sorrow, and particularly sorrow with regard to the loss of life. It is used when speaking indirectly of that shared sorrow:

After the 1985 Bradford stadium fire, during the Prime Minister's visit of condolence to the city, . . .
— William Leith, The Independent (London), 25 Nov. 1990

and often in a modifying position:

Still, although I felt for him, I barely knew the guy. Would it be inappropriate to pay a condolence call? Did they want their privacy?
— Alan Gelb, The New York Times Magazine, 7 Jan. 1990

Last week, people around the world showed their support for Russia. They held candlelight vigils, sent condolence letters and signed memory books.
— Jeremy Caplan, TIME for Kids, 17 Sept. 2004

The plural condolences, on the other hand, is often used specifically for an expression of sympathy, and most often appears in the construction my condolences, which is used to communicate sympathy. While condolences is often used to share sorrow over a death:

The prime minister of the day attended Hardy's funeral. . . . King George V and the Prince of Wales telegraphed their condolences.
— Terry Eagleton, Harper’s, November 2007

it can also be used of anything perceived of as a misfortune:

The odds of getting Apert syndrome are about the same as getting killed by lightning: 1 in 100,000. Indeed, for his family, Nate's birth was a lightning bolt: it came from the blue and was a shock to the system. Instead of getting congratulatory notes, the couple got condolences.
Bella English, Boston Globe, 1 Oct. 2000

Within mere hours of Ted Lambros's rejection for tenure at Harvard, communications began to pour in from every important university center of the United States. Some were simply to express condolences.
— Erich Segal, The Class, 1985

Condolences is sometimes used humorously, whereas condolence is not:

Tell someone you're from Buffalo, and you get the Look: If pity and condescension got it on, this is the baby they'd make. Something in the eyes that offers condolences for everything from playing childhood games in a frozen tundropolis to four straight Super Bowl losses.
— Nick Bakay, ESPN, 28 June 1999

Condolences is the more common form of the word, and should be used when expressing your sympathy at someone’s loss.

Examples of condolence in a Sentence

The governor issued a statement of condolence to the victims' families. We wish to express our sincere condolences to your family.

Recent Examples on the Web

The post received outpouring condolences from so many famous faces. Amanda Garrity, Good Housekeeping, "Colin Hanks Shares a Heartfelt Story About Luke Perry Following the Actor's Tragic Death," 5 Mar. 2019 Online condolences can be made at www.middendorf-funeralhome.com Richard A. Maureau, 78, of Charlotte died June 23, 2018 at the Tucker Hospice House. Sun-Sentinel.com, "Deaths in South Florida: 6/26," 26 June 2018 Our condolences to our Missouri neighbors and the family of Hall of Famer Red Schoendienst on his passing. Pete Grathoff, kansascity, "The Cardinals tipped their caps to the Royals on Twitter," 7 June 2018 Those around the state also offered their condolences, including athletic programs. David Harten, The Courier-Journal, "Social media reacts to death of Pleasure Ridge Park baseball coach Bill Miller," 23 Apr. 2018 Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe sent a message of condolences to U.S. President Donald Trump, while praying for a speedy recovery of the injured. Mari Yamaguchi, The Seattle Times, "5 missing Marines declared dead in warplanes crash off Japan," 11 Dec. 2018 This was his last post on his business’s Facebook page, where comments were flowing in Thursday from people offering prayers and condolences. Jon Kamp, WSJ, "In California Shooting, Sheriff’s Sergeant Made ‘Ultimate Sacrifice’ Trying to Stop Gunman," 8 Nov. 2018 Political figures on both sides of the aisle have begun paying their respects and expressing condolences to the Bush family, from the Obamas to House Speaker Paul Ryan. Rachel Withers, Vox, "George H.W. Bush’s state funeral arrangements: what we know," 3 Dec. 2018 To extend online condolences and/or share a memory, please visit farleysullivan.com. Hartford Courant, courant.com, "Nicholas Fierravanti," 13 July 2018

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First Known Use of condolence

1603, in the meaning defined at sense 1

History and Etymology for condolence

see condole

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condolence

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English Language Learners Definition of condolence

: a feeling or expression of sympathy and sadness especially when someone is suffering because of the death of a family member, a friend, etc.

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