condolence

noun
con·​do·​lence | \ kən-ˈdō-lən(t)s also ˈkän-də- How to pronounce condolence (audio) \

Definition of condolence

1 : sympathy with another in sorrow
2 : an expression of sympathy usually pluralThe bereaved family received many condolences.

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pity, compassion, commiseration, condolence, sympathy mean the act or capacity for sharing the painful feelings of another. pity implies tender or sometimes slightly contemptuous sorrow for one in misery or distress. felt pity for the captives compassion implies pity coupled with an urgent desire to aid or to spare. treats the homeless with great compassion commiseration suggests pity expressed outwardly in exclamations, tears, or words of comfort. murmurs of commiseration filled the loser's headquarters condolence applies chiefly to formal expression of grief to one who has suffered loss. expressed their condolences to the widow sympathy often suggests a tender concern but can also imply a power to enter into another's emotional experience of any sort. went to my best friend for sympathy in sympathy with her desire to locate her natural parents

Condolence and Condolences

When used in the singular, condolence generally refers to sympathetic sorrow, and particularly sorrow with regard to the loss of life. It is used when speaking indirectly of that shared sorrow:

After the 1985 Bradford stadium fire, during the Prime Minister's visit of condolence to the city, . . .
— William Leith, The Independent (London), 25 Nov. 1990

and often in a modifying position:

Still, although I felt for him, I barely knew the guy. Would it be inappropriate to pay a condolence call? Did they want their privacy?
— Alan Gelb, The New York Times Magazine, 7 Jan. 1990

Last week, people around the world showed their support for Russia. They held candlelight vigils, sent condolence letters and signed memory books.
— Jeremy Caplan, TIME for Kids, 17 Sept. 2004

The plural condolences, on the other hand, is often used specifically for an expression of sympathy, and most often appears in the construction my condolences, which is used to communicate sympathy. While condolences is often used to share sorrow over a death:

The prime minister of the day attended Hardy's funeral. . . . King George V and the Prince of Wales telegraphed their condolences.
— Terry Eagleton, Harper’s, November 2007

it can also be used of anything perceived of as a misfortune:

The odds of getting Apert syndrome are about the same as getting killed by lightning: 1 in 100,000. Indeed, for his family, Nate's birth was a lightning bolt: it came from the blue and was a shock to the system. Instead of getting congratulatory notes, the couple got condolences.
Bella English, Boston Globe, 1 Oct. 2000

Within mere hours of Ted Lambros's rejection for tenure at Harvard, communications began to pour in from every important university center of the United States. Some were simply to express condolences.
— Erich Segal, The Class, 1985

Condolences is sometimes used humorously, whereas condolence is not:

Tell someone you're from Buffalo, and you get the Look: If pity and condescension got it on, this is the baby they'd make. Something in the eyes that offers condolences for everything from playing childhood games in a frozen tundropolis to four straight Super Bowl losses.
— Nick Bakay, ESPN, 28 June 1999

Condolences is the more common form of the word, and should be used when expressing your sympathy at someone’s loss.

Examples of condolence in a Sentence

The governor issued a statement of condolence to the victims' families. We wish to express our sincere condolences to your family.
Recent Examples on the Web To leave an online condolence please visit www.siskbrothers.com Sisk Brothers Funeral Home - Hamden 3105 Whitney Ave. courant.com, "Christy Ann Vining Russell," 28 Nov. 2019 For information or to offer an online condolence please visit www. orlandosentinel.com, "Deaths in Central Florida: 11/24," 24 Nov. 2019 Some people even posted words of condolences on the reality star's various social media accounts, perpetuating the lie. Kelly O'sullivan, Country Living, "Dog the Bounty Hunter Had to Shut Down Rumors About His Own Death," 24 Nov. 2019 Each time, Washington mourned; the zoo was inundated with condolence letters. Robin Wright, The New Yorker, "Washington’s Other Drama: The Unbearable Departure of Its Last Panda Cub," 20 Nov. 2019 Tyson’s death was followed by a flood of condolences from politicians, journalists and health advocates. Time, "Kaiser Permanente Chairman and CEO Bernard J. Tyson Dies at 60," 10 Nov. 2019 Conyers' family also said Wednesday that condolence notes for the family should be sent to Swanson’s Funeral Home, 14751 W. McNichols Rd. Todd Spangler, Detroit Free Press, "Viewings for former US Rep. John Conyers to be held at Wright Museum," 30 Oct. 2019 Many people have sent condolences, which was very thoughtful. Abigail Van Buren, oregonlive, "Dear Abby: Man finds online gaming addiction hard to shake," 19 Oct. 2019 To retrieve those services or to leave an online condolence, story, or message please visit www. sun-sentinel.com, "Deaths in South Florida: 10/3," 3 Oct. 2019

These example sentences are selected automatically from various online news sources to reflect current usage of the word 'condolence.' Views expressed in the examples do not represent the opinion of Merriam-Webster or its editors. Send us feedback.

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First Known Use of condolence

1603, in the meaning defined at sense 1

History and Etymology for condolence

see condole

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The first known use of condolence was in 1603

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2 Dec 2019

Cite this Entry

“Condolence.” The Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster Inc., https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/condolence. Accessed 12 December 2019.

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English Language Learners Definition of condolence

: a feeling or expression of sympathy and sadness especially when someone is suffering because of the death of a family member, a friend, etc.

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