abstemious

adjective ab·ste·mi·ous \ ab-ˈstē-mē-əs \

Definition of abstemious

formal

:marked by restraint especially in the eating of food or drinking of alcohol

an abstemious drinker

; also :reflecting such restraint

an abstemious diet

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abstemiously

adverb

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abstemiousness

noun

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Examples of abstemious in a Sentence

She is known as an abstemious eater and drinker.
being abstemious diners, they avoid restaurants with all-you-can-eat buffets

Recent Examples of abstemious from the Web

Denis, who died this week at the age of sixty-seven, was resolutely sober, abstemious, but not at all grave.

— tobias wolff, The New Yorker, "Denis Johnson’s Generosity," 28 May 2017
As a result, ladies had to be adept in carrying their gloves while enjoying non-abstemious indoor activities.

— judith martin, The Mercury News, "Miss Manners: Is woman’s rudeness OK if she says ‘I’m rude’?," 19 Mar. 2017
The White House started serving liquor again after the abstemious Carter years.

— lou cannon, New York Times, "Nancy Reagan, an Influential and Protective First Lady, Dies at 94," 6 Mar. 2016

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Did You Know?

Abstemious and "abstain" look alike, and both have meanings involving self-restraint or self-denial. So they must both come from the same root, right? Yes and no. Both get their start from the Latin prefix abs-, meaning "from" or "away," but "abstain" traces to "abs-" plus the Latin verb tenēre (meaning "to hold"), while "abstemious" gets its "-temious" from a suffix akin to the Latin noun temetum, meaning "intoxicating drink."

Origin and Etymology of abstemious

borrowed from Latin abstēmius "refraining from wine, careful with one's means," from abs- (variant of ab- ab- before c- and t-) + -tēmius, from a base tēm- "intoxicating" (also in tēmētum "intoxicating beverage," tēmulentus "drunken"); if going back to an Indo-European root *temH-, akin to Sanskrit tāmyati "(he/she) is stunned, loses consciousness, is exhausted," tamayati "(he/she) chokes (someone)," Armenian t^cmrim "(he/she) is stunned" (perhaps going back to *tēēmiro-)

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First Known Use: 1609

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