messed over

verb

past tense of mess over, slang
as in abused
to inflict physical or emotional harm upon her no-good boyfriend has been messing her over for years

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  1. abused
  2. bullied
  3. tortured
Verb
  • State judges who take these cases look for proof that applicants cannot safely return to their home country, have been abused, abandoned or neglected by one or both parents, and that reunification with a parent is not possible.
    — Sasha Allen, Hartford Courant, 1 Nov. 2026
  • Travis Kelce, a future Hall of Fame selection who abused the Dolphins earlier this season, capitalizing on a handful of the players where Taaffe was responsible for his coverage.
    — Omar Kelly, Miami Herald, 30 Oct. 2026
Definition of abused
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  • Senior faculty were more likely than younger educators to report being bullied by students over grades.
    — Jason Walker, The Conversation, 3 Nov. 2026
  • Frimpong's father said he was being bullied leading up to his death.
    — CBS News, CBS News, 2 Nov. 2026
Definition of bullied
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  • Two people are facing charges after authorities say an 81-year-old Delaware man was lured to a home in Elkton, Maryland, where he was tortured, assaulted and robbed.
    — ABC News, ABC News, 6 Nov. 2026
  • Ng, along with his accomplice Leonard Lake, tortured and killed at least a dozen people at their Calaveras County cabin in the 1980s.
    — Sacbee.com, Sacbee.com, 5 Nov. 2026
Definition of tortured
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“Messed over.” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/messed%20over. Accessed 10 Nov. 2026.

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