curve

verb

to reject someone romantically or sexually

What does curve mean?

To curve someone is to reject or turn them down romantically or sexually, to spurn their advances. Curve can also be used as a noun for such an act of rejection.

Examples of curve

I’m glad you curved him. He actually doesn’t want a relationship. He just wants access to you.
—@ghostface_dee, Threads, 10 Jan. 2025

Others have tried to shoot their shot (including women who curved him in the past), but again, those ladies will have to wait.
—Victoria Uwumarogie, Essence, 17 Dec. 2021

… his very obvious affection for Rihanna was palpable and endearing. Which is why her curve last night — and yes, she totally gave him the “we’re better as friends” cheek turn when he attempted to kiss her — was so cringe-worthy to watch.
—Damon Young, The Root, 29 Aug. 2016

My ex reached out after no contact of 5 months and I curved her out of fear of getting hurt …
—@throwaway48583838, Reddit, 28 Nov. 2018

Where does curve come from?

Evidence of the slang use of curve dates at least as far back as the late 00s. It may represent an extension of the sense of curve meaning “to cause to curve,” i.e. to cause to take a turn, change, or deviation from (something). In this way, the “reject” sense of curve is similar to divert or turn away, as can be seen in the following example where a kiss is curved, not the would-be kisser.

Oh no, not on national TV! This chick was trying to give a smooch to a guy we can assume went with her to this sports event but he curved her attempt!
—@LaCrystalRosas, Z100 (New York), 3 Nov. 2021

How is curve used?

There must be (at least) fifty ways to curve your suitor. Curve is often used generally to cover most of them, but is sometimes used specifically to subtle or indirect yet clear acts of showing disinterest in someone’s wooing.

There is also some evidence of curve being used to mean snub in platonic contexts.