upsetting

adjective

up·​set·​ting (ˌ)əp-ˈse-tiŋ How to pronounce upsetting (audio)
Synonyms of upsettingnext
: mentally or emotionally troubling or disturbing : causing feelings of worry or anxiety
heard some upsetting news
an upsetting experience
We're up to [a deficit of] $1.5 trillion a year …. These numbers are truly upsetting.Bill Gates
Professors issue, or students demand, trigger warnings when presenting material that might be upsetting to some: depictions of rape, sexism, racism, suicide.Yvonne Abraham
upsettingly adverb
an upsettingly graphic depiction of violence
In comparison to male historical figures, the number of women that we learn about throughout school is upsettingly low. Alexis Gardner

Examples of upsetting in a Sentence

the constant arguing is upsetting to a sensitive person like your grandmother
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Red, people argued, would be too upsetting for audiences to see. Ralph Jones, HubSpot, 20 Feb. 2026 The study, which was published in the journal Acta Psychologica, found that people who regularly did cardio were more likely to stay calm compared to people who didn’t exercise much while navigating an upsetting situation. Korin Miller, SELF, 20 Feb. 2026 Unfortunately, once the law is involved, a crime has to be reported, setting in motion a chain of events that are extremely upsetting to the old lady, starting with an intrusive internal examination. Damon Wise, Deadline, 19 Feb. 2026 That was such a terrible shock and really upsetting, horrifying, and scary. Joey Nolfi, Entertainment Weekly, 16 Feb. 2026 See All Example Sentences for upsetting

Word History

First Known Use

1872, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of upsetting was in 1872

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“Upsetting.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/upsetting. Accessed 1 Mar. 2026.

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