stand·​off·​ish | \ stand-ˈȯ-fish How to pronounce standoffish (audio) \

Definition of standoffish

: somewhat cold and reserved

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Other Words from standoffish

standoffishly adverb
standoffishness noun

Examples of standoffish in a Sentence

She tends to be a bit standoffish with strangers. she proved to be simply shy, not standoffish
Recent Examples on the Web Alden, a neurodiverse bookworm, resents Conrad’s seemingly effortless popularity, while Conrad, whose life is secretly falling apart, finds Alden standoffish and condescending. Maureen Lee Lenker,, "Hot Stuff: June romances embrace the inherent sexiness of faking it," 30 June 2020 A bird that’s standoffish after fly-down may strut right in at 10 a.m. A mid-morning hunt can take different forms. The Editors, Field & Stream, "The Outdoorsman’s Guide to Social Distancing," 18 Mar. 2020 Karev was initially resented by his colleagues for his standoffish manner, but grew to form a rapport with them. NBC News, "'Grey's Anatomy' fans 'distraught' that Justin Chambers is leaving the show after 15 years," 10 Jan. 2020 But the bustling, metropolitan vibe might not be right for everyone, and the locals can come across as standoffish. Nina B. Lichtenstein, Washington Post, "If you want a more intimate Norwegian experience, head to Trondheim instead of Oslo," 26 Sep. 2019 Cats have a reputation for being disinterested and standoffish little furballs who only show their owners affection when its time to fill their dinner bowls. Melissa Locker, Time, "Here Are Many, Many Cats Reacting Appropriately to Humans Using Cat Filters," 12 Dec. 2019 Viewed from the south, the tower looks to be fittingly monumental but no longer mausoleumlike, dignified yet lively, abstract without being standoffish. Blair Kamin,, "Column: Here’s an exclusive look at the latest design tweaks to the Obama Presidential Center. Is the third time the charm?," 27 Oct. 2019 Anything but standoffish, Gerstein responded in both mood and sound to the sometimes raucous, sometimes tender atmospheres conjured by his orchestral colleagues, especially those on clarinet and percussion. Zachary Lewis, cleveland, "Cleveland Orchestra paints vibrant self-portrait through Bach, Brahms, and Ades," 14 Oct. 2019 The defensive record of five goals conceded in two games is a worthy one of a sluggish and standoffish side., "3 Problems Nathan Jones Must Solve to Save Stoke City From Championship Obscurity," 27 Aug. 2019

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First Known Use of standoffish

1860, in the meaning defined above

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5 Jul 2020

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“Standoffish.” Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, Accessed 6 Aug. 2020.

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English Language Learners Definition of standoffish

: not friendly toward other people

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