self-effacing
adjective
self-ef·fac·ing
ˌself-i-ˈfā-siŋ 
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: having or showing a tendency to make oneself modestly or shyly inconspicuous
His passions and faith run soul-deep, his gentle wit is always self-effacing and never insulting …—
Don Gaetz
Don Gaetz… she was an extremely self-effacing, private person who never sought the limelight and did not leave the usual artifacts that enable a biographer to reconstruct life patterns.—Douglas R. McManis
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he's dating a sweet, self-effacing girl
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Kyle Chayka, New Yorker, 3 Sep. 2025
Pamela is a self-effacing free spirit whose honesty and abandonment cast a spell on the embittered Wendall.
—Rance Collins, IndieWire, 20 Aug. 2025
With perfect timing, a self-effacing delivery made for banquets, only Denehy could tell them just right.
—Dom Amore, Hartford Courant, 26 July 2025
Ed Ulbrich is fairly self-effacing about his calling as a builder of bridges between entertainment and technology.
—Dade Hayes, Deadline, 2 July 2025
See All Example Sentences for self-effacing
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“Self-effacing.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-effacing. Accessed 10 Sep. 2025.
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