pleas·​ant·​ry | \ ˈple-zᵊn-trē How to pronounce pleasantry (audio) \
plural pleasantries

Definition of pleasantry

1 : a humorous act or remark : jest
2 : an agreeable playfulness in conversation : banter
3 : a polite social remark exchanged pleasantries

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Examples of pleasantry in a Sentence

“how are you” is merely a social pleasantry his after-dinner speeches usually include the sort of gentle pleasantry that raises a chuckle

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Ri and Secretary of State Mike Pompeo were both attending the forum and briefly shook hands and exchanged pleasantries at the start of the meeting. Fox News, "The Latest: North Korea's foreign minister shoots back at US," 4 Aug. 2018 Imagine all the pleasantries of a relaxing summer afternoon- including the smell of the park and the flowers. Olivia Rassow, ELLE Decor, "Is This The Craziest Summer Seating You've Ever Seen?," 3 July 2014 For now, the next steps in the whirlwind process will be pleasantries. Gregg Re, Fox News, "Kavanaugh nod touches off Supreme Court confirmation battle; Dems warn of 'deaths of countless women'," 10 July 2018 Pompeo and his counterpart, Kim Yong Chol, revealed little about the content of their negotiations, leaving the focus on pleasantries and small talk as the two men grappled with the most pressing security issue facing the Asia Pacific. John Hudson, Washington Post, "North Korean negotiator teases and flatters as Pompeo enters second day of talks," 7 July 2018 State Department spokeswoman, Heather Nauert, said Mr. Pompeo and Gen. Kim had dined together the previous night for one hour and 45 minutes, exchanging pleasantries and jokes. Jessica Donati, WSJ, "Pompeo Seeks Some Details on North Korea’s Nuclear Promise," 6 July 2018 What menus ensure that your vegan sister and your paleo friend won’t exchange passive aggressive pleasantries? Olivia Martin, Town & Country, "Interior Designer Charlotte Moss Shares Her Secrets to Summer Entertaining," 7 June 2018 Unlike his predecessor, the NBA commissioner prefers pleasantries, equivocation and deliberate investigations to zingers, ultimatums and snap judgments. Ben Golliver,, "Two Years After Durant’s Decision, Adam Silver Changes Tune on Superteam Warriors," 11 July 2018 Footage taken before the game shows Van Dijk exchanging pleasantries in the tunnel area, before attempting to enter the home dressing room., "VIDEO: Red Faced Virgil van Dijk Experiences Moment to Forget on His Return to St Mary's," 12 Feb. 2018

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First Known Use of pleasantry

1594, in the meaning defined at sense 1

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English Language Learners Definition of pleasantry

formal : something (such as a greeting) that people say in order to be polite

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grandiloquent, ostentatious, or bombastic

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