ingratiate

verb

in·​gra·​ti·​ate in-ˈgrā-shē-ˌāt How to pronounce ingratiate (audio)
ingratiated; ingratiating

transitive verb

: to gain favor or favorable acceptance for by deliberate effort
usually used with with
ingratiate themselves with the community leadersWilliam Attwood
ingratiation noun
ingratiatory adjective

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When you ingratiate yourself, you put yourself in someone’s good graces in order to gain their approval or favor. While the word ingratiate does not necessarily imply that your behavior is obsequious or otherwise improper, the word may be used disapprovingly by those who distrust your motives. The word entered English in the early 1600s from the combining of the Latin noun gratia, meaning “grace” or “favor,” with the English prefix in-. Gratia comes from the adjective gratus, meaning “pleasing, grateful.” Gratus has, over the centuries, ingratiated itself well with the English language as the ancestor of a whole host of words including gratuitous, congratulate, and grace.

Examples of ingratiate in a Sentence

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Cornyn, a four-term senator from San Antonio, has sought to ingratiate himself with the Trump administration to win the president’s endorsement in his Texas GOP primary race against the state’s attorney general, Ken Paxton. Rick Pearson, Chicago Tribune, 8 Aug. 2025 Soon the child has become a fixture in their household, alternately ingratiating himself and raising suspicions, and exposing unacknowledged rifts and unexamined secrets that threaten to wreak psychological and spiritual havoc in the lives of his makeshift adoptive parents. Zac Ntim, Deadline, 30 July 2025 He was quickly won over by her performance, but her insistence on outdoing herself ingratiated herself to the filmmaker even more. Brian Davids, HollywoodReporter, 18 July 2025 At the same time, federal efforts to regulate the technology have stalled and the tech titans Newsom ingratiated himself with as mayor of San Francisco have since begun embracing the MAGA movement and President Trump, who routinely treats California as a political punching bag. Lia Russell updated July 14, Sacbee.com, 14 July 2025 See All Example Sentences for ingratiate

Word History

Etymology

in- entry 2 + Latin gratia grace

First Known Use

1621, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of ingratiate was in 1621

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“Ingratiate.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/ingratiate. Accessed 20 Aug. 2025.

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ingratiate

verb
in·​gra·​ti·​ate in-ˈgrā-shē-ˌāt How to pronounce ingratiate (audio)
ingratiated; ingratiating
: to gain favor or acceptance for by deliberate effort
quickly ingratiated herself with her new pupils
ingratiation noun

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