Definition of help oneself
1 : to serve oneself as much food or drink as one would like There's plenty of food, so help yourself. —often + to Help yourself to some dessert.
2 informal : to take something without permission He saw the money lying on the table, and he helped himself. —usually + to He helped himself to the car keys.
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