where (someone) is at

idiom

informal

: someone's true opinion, state, or nature

I haven't quite figured out where she's at on that issue.

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Taking a thoughtful, considerate approach while trying to understand where someone is at that specific point in time can help bridge communication with people who may be hesitant to share feedback. —Expert Panel®, Forbes, 5 July 2022