where (someone) is at

phrase

informal

: someone's true opinion, state, or nature

I haven't quite figured out where she's at on that issue.

Examples of where (someone) is at in a Sentence

Recent Examples on the Web

This balance between technology and human connection is at the heart of how Williams envisions healing—offering support tailored to where someone is at. — Essence, 23 July 2025

Understanding where someone is at shows empathy and understanding. — Susan Johnston, Rolling Stone, 13 May 2024

Taking a thoughtful, considerate approach while trying to understand where someone is at that specific point in time can help bridge communication with people who may be hesitant to share feedback. — Expert Panel®, Forbes, 5 July 2022