verb whee·dle \ˈhwē-dəl, ˈwē-\

Definition of wheedle



play \ˈ(h)wēd-liŋ, ˈ(h)wē-dəl-iŋ\
  1. transitive verb
  2. 1 :  to influence or entice by soft words or flattery

  3. 2 :  to gain or get by wheedling <wheedle one's way into favor>

  4. intransitive verb
  5. :  to use soft words or flattery

Examples of wheedle in a sentence

  1. He wheedled quite a bit of money from her.

  2. She pleaded and wheedled, but I wouldn't be swayed.

Did You Know?

Wheedle has been a part of the English lexicon since the mid-17th century, though no one is quite sure how the word made its way into English. (It has been suggested that the term may have derived from an Old English word that meant "to beg," but this is far from certain.) Once established in the language, however, wheedle became a favorite of some of the language's most illustrious writers. Wheedle and related forms appear in the writings of Wordsworth, Dickens, Kipling, Dryden, Swift, Scott, Tennyson, and Pope, among others.

Origin and Etymology of wheedle

origin unknown

First Known Use: circa 1661

Synonym Discussion of wheedle

cajole, coax, soft-soap, blandish, wheedle mean to influence or persuade by pleasing words or actions. cajole suggests the deliberate use of flattery to persuade in the face of reluctance or reasonable objections <cajoled him into cheating on the final exam>. coax implies gentle and persistent words or actions employed to produce a desired effect <coaxed the cat out of the tree>. soft-soap refers to using smooth and somewhat insincere talk usually for personal gain <politicians soft-soaping eligible voters>. blandish implies a more open desire to win a person over by effusive praise and affectionate actions <legislators blandished with promises of support>. wheedle suggests more strongly than cajole the use of seductive appeal or artful words in persuading <hucksters wheedling her life's savings out of her>.

WHEEDLE Defined for English Language Learners


verb whee·dle \ˈhwē-dəl, ˈwē-\

Definition of wheedle for English Language Learners

  • : to persuade someone to do something or to give you something by saying nice things

WHEEDLE Defined for Kids


verb whee·dle \ˈhwē-dəl, ˈwē-\

Definition of wheedle for Students



  1. 1 :  to get (someone) to think or act a certain way by flattering :  coax <“You're such a good cook, you make dinner,” she wheedled.>

  2. 2 :  to gain or get by coaxing or flattering <He's trying to wheedle money out of them.>

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