soften

verb

soft·​en ˈsȯ-fən How to pronounce soften (audio)
softened; softening ˈsȯ-fə-niŋ How to pronounce soften (audio)
ˈsȯf-niŋ
Synonyms of softennext

transitive verb

1
: to make soft or softer
2
a
: to weaken the military resistance or the morale of especially by harassment (such as preliminary bombardment)
often used with up
b
: to impair the strength or resistance of
often used with up
soften up a sales prospect

intransitive verb

: to become soft or softer
her face softened
softener
ˈsȯ-fə-nər How to pronounce soften (audio)
ˈsȯf-nər
noun

Examples of soften in a Sentence

The butter will soften if left on the counter overnight. The recipe called for one stick of butter, softened. The oil is used to soften and preserve the leather. The lotion softens dry skin. The company has softened its stance on dating in the workplace. Her face softened when he entered the room. His criticism of the president has softened in the past year. The grass softened my fall.
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Each of the eight luxurious scents is packed with softening coconut oil and shea butter. Kaitlin Clapinski, InStyle, 11 Jan. 2026 Astringent Hachiya persimmons must fully soften at room temperature before eating because chilling too early locks in bitterness. Randi Gollin, Martha Stewart, 11 Jan. 2026 The silky conditioner pairs keratin with jojoba seed oil to soften hair and boost shine, leaving strands glossy enough to pass for a fresh salon blowout. Lily Wohlner, Allure, 11 Jan. 2026 Shredded chicken, softened vegetables, and chicken broth that gets its flavor from thyme, rosemary, sage and dry white wine, come together to create this flavorful dish. Melinda Salchert, Southern Living, 11 Jan. 2026 See All Example Sentences for soften

Word History

First Known Use

14th century, in the meaning defined at transitive sense 1

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The first known use of soften was in the 14th century

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“Soften.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/soften. Accessed 12 Jan. 2026.

Kids Definition

soften

verb
soft·​en ˈsȯ-fən How to pronounce soften (audio)
softened; softening ˈsȯf-(ə-)niŋ How to pronounce soften (audio)
1
: to make or become soft or softer
2
: to lessen the strength of
softener noun

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