by the rules

1 of 2

phrase (1)

: in the way that is most common, expected, and acceptable
After years of boredom, she grew tired of living by the rules.
He has played by the rules throughout his career.

by the rules

2 of 2

phrase (2)

: in the way that is most common, expected, and acceptable
After years of boredom, he grew tired of living by the rules.
She has always played by the rules throughout her career.

Word History

First Known Use

Phrase (1)

1909, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of by the rules was in 1909

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“By the rules.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/by%20the%20rules. Accessed 10 Mar. 2026.

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