by the rules

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phrase (1)

: in the way that is most common, expected, and acceptable
After years of boredom, she grew tired of living by the rules.
He has played by the rules throughout his career.

by the rules

2 of 2

phrase (2)

: in the way that is most common, expected, and acceptable
After years of boredom, he grew tired of living by the rules.
She has always played by the rules throughout her career.

Examples of by the rules in a Sentence

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This is the extraordinary rise of one company that refused to play by the rules and set out on a path of ambition, risk and consequence. — Alex Ritman, Variety, 2 Nov. 2026 There's no need to play by the rules of a perfectly coordinated table setting. — Vy Yang, Architectural Digest, 30 Oct. 2026 My job is to be an actor and play by the rules of what the script tells us to do each and every week. — Bobby Burack , Ryan Gaydos Outkick, FOXNews.com, 9 Oct. 2026 Punishing undersea saboteurs is further complicated by the rules of jurisdiction. — Michael Albertus, Foreign Affairs, 30 Sep. 2026 See All Example Sentences for by the rules

Word History

First Known Use

Phrase (1)

1909, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of by the rules was in 1909

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“By the rules.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/by%20the%20rules. Accessed 4 Nov. 2026.

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