1
: something (such as one's manners) that one should be mindful of
… better watch his p's and q's when I get a six-gun of my own.Jean Stafford
2
: best behavior
… being on her p's and q's for two solid days was too much …Guy McCrone

Word History

Etymology

from the phrase mind one's p's and q's, alluding to the difficulty a child learning to write has in distinguishing between p and q

First Known Use

1779, in the meaning defined at sense 1

Time Traveler
The first known use of p's and q's was in 1779

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Cite this Entry

“P's and q's.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/p%27s%20and%20q%27s. Accessed 14 Nov. 2025.

Kids Definition

p's and q's

noun
: something (as manners) that one should be careful about
always minded my p's and q's around my aunts and uncles

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