empathy

noun
em·​pa·​thy | \ ˈem-pə-thē How to pronounce empathy (audio) \

Definition of empathy

1 : the action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts, and experience fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner also : the capacity for this
2 : the imaginative projection of a subjective state into an object so that the object appears to be infused with it

Sympathy vs. Empathy

Sympathy and empathy are closely related words, bound by shared origins and the similar circumstances in which each is applicable, yet they are not synonymous. For one thing, sympathy is considerably older than empathy, having existed in our language for several hundred years before its cousin was introduced, and its greater age is reflected in a wider breadth of meaning. Sympathy may refer to "feelings of loyalty" or "unity or harmony in action or effect," meanings not shared by empathy. In the contexts where the two words do overlap, sympathy implies sharing (or having the capacity to share) the feelings of another, while empathy tends to be used to mean imagining, or having the capacity to imagine, feelings that one does not actually have.

What is the difference between empathy and compassion?

Some of our users are interested in the difference between empathy and compassion. Compassion is the broader word: it refers to both an understanding of another’s pain and the desire to somehow mitigate that pain:

Our rationalizations for lying (or withholding the truth)—"to protect her," "he could never handle it”—come more out of cowardice than compassion.
— Eric Utne, Utne Reader, November/December 1992

Sometimes compassion is used to refer broadly to sympathetic understanding:

Nevertheless, when Robert Paxton's "Vichy France" appeared in a French translation in 1973, his stark and devastating description ... was rather badly received in France, where many critics accused this scrupulous and thoughtful young historian either of misinterpreting the Vichy leaders' motives or of lacking compassion.
— Stanley Hoffmann, The New York Times Book Review, 1 Nov. 1981

Empathy refers to the ability to relate to another person’s pain vicariously, as if one has experienced that pain themselves:

For instance, people who are highly egoistic and presumably lacking in empathy keep their own welfare paramount in making moral decisions like how or whether to help the poor.
— Daniel Goleman, The New York Times, 28 Mar. 1989

"The man thought all this talk was fine, but he was more concerned with just getting water. And, if I was going to be successful on this mission, I had to remember what his priorities were. The quality you need most in United Nations peacekeeping is empathy."
— Geordie Elms, quoted in MHQ: The Quarterly Journal of Military History, Autumn 1992

In some cases, compassion refers to both a feeling and the action that stems from that feeling:

Compassion, tenderness, patience, responsibility, kindness, and honesty are actions that elicit similar responses from others.
— Jane Smiley, Harper’s, June 2000

while empathy tends to be used just for a feeling:

She is also autistic, a disability that she argues allows her a special empathy with nonhuman creatures.
— Tim Flannery, The New York Review of Books, 29 April 2009

Examples of empathy in a Sentence

Poetic empathy understandably seeks a strategy of identification with victims … — Helen Vendler, New Republic, 5 May 2003 This is tough love with a vengeance, but what a gruesome view of God's saints bereft of all empathy. — Sidney Callahan, Commonweal, 19 Apr. 2002 Enter a new inmate … a giant black man with a gift of preternatural empathy; he can literally suck the pain out of people. — Richard Corliss, Time, 13 Dec. 1999 But in all those years of young womanhood, my Do-Unto-Others empathy never extended beyond sharing a trolley seat. — Lois Mark Stalvey, The Education of a WASP, 1989 He felt great empathy with the poor. His months spent researching prison life gave him greater empathy towards convicts. See More
Recent Examples on the Web External awareness is particularly helpful in developing empathy, defined as the ability to understand the emotions and share the feelings of others and one of the basic components of an effective leader and compassionate human being. Svetlana Whitener, Forbes, 3 Aug. 2022 In an age aflame with strident tweets, Hamid offers swelling remorse and expansive empathy. Ron Charles, Washington Post, 2 Aug. 2022 In addition to being important to grooming, licks can show affection, empathy or a need for attention to humans or other dogs. Jacob Livesay, USA TODAY, 29 July 2022 The next generation is then forced to grapple with their parents’ post-traumatic stress and may in turn become emotionally distant and raise their own children with a lack of emotional presence and empathy, perpetuating the cycle. Erica Komisar, WSJ, 28 July 2022 Gone was the patient case-building, the appeals to logic and empathy, that characterized so many of her recent speeches. Abrahm Lustgarten, ProPublica, 27 July 2022 Gone was the patient case-building, the appeals to logic and empathy, that characterized so many of her recent speeches. New York Times, 27 July 2022 But Chehelnabi wants audiences to harness empathy rather than judgement. Alicia Vrajlal, refinery29.com, 26 July 2022 Though the burdens are heaviest on women’s shoulders, some men are attempting to help carry the strain through empathy and the unity that comes from listening and sometimes speaking up in public at their partner’s side. Xander Peters, The Christian Science Monitor, 26 July 2022 See More

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First Known Use of empathy

1909, in the meaning defined at sense 2

History and Etymology for empathy

Greek empatheia, literally, passion, from empathēs emotional, from em- + pathos feelings, emotion — more at pathos

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“Empathy.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/empathy. Accessed 15 Aug. 2022.

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More Definitions for empathy

empathy

noun
em·​pa·​thy | \ ˈem-pə-thē How to pronounce empathy (audio) \

Kids Definition of empathy

: the understanding and sharing of the emotions and experiences of another person He has great empathy toward the poor.

empathy

noun
em·​pa·​thy | \ ˈem-pə-thē How to pronounce empathy (audio) \
plural empathies

Medical Definition of empathy

1 : the imaginative projection of a subjective state into an object so that the object appears to be infused with it
2 : the action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts, and experience fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner also : the capacity for empathy

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