soften

verb

soft·​en ˈsȯ-fən How to pronounce soften (audio)
softened; softening ˈsȯ-fə-niŋ How to pronounce soften (audio)
ˈsȯf-niŋ

transitive verb

1
: to make soft or softer
2
a
: to weaken the military resistance or the morale of especially by harassment (such as preliminary bombardment)
often used with up
b
: to impair the strength or resistance of
often used with up
soften up a sales prospect

intransitive verb

: to become soft or softer
her face softened
softener
ˈsȯ-fə-nər How to pronounce soften (audio)
ˈsȯf-nər
noun

Examples of soften in a Sentence

The butter will soften if left on the counter overnight. The recipe called for one stick of butter, softened. The oil is used to soften and preserve the leather. The lotion softens dry skin. The company has softened its stance on dating in the workplace. Her face softened when he entered the room. His criticism of the president has softened in the past year. The grass softened my fall.
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Yet analysts expect her stance on visits to the Yasukuni shrine will soften in office. Hanako Montgomery, CNN Money, 11 Oct. 2025 Place softened butter and cream cheese in a large bowl; beat with an electric mixer until creamy, about 2 minutes. Ann Taylor Pittman, Southern Living, 11 Oct. 2025 The Mayo Clinic said the best way to prevent hemorrhoids is to eat high-fiber foods or take fiber supplements to soften stool, drink plenty of fluids and avoid long periods of pushing or straining. Adrianna Rodriguez, USA Today, 11 Oct. 2025 Compared to refrigerator-temperature butter, softened butter blends more easily with the other wet ingredients. Karla Walsh, Better Homes & Gardens, 11 Oct. 2025 See All Example Sentences for soften

Word History

First Known Use

14th century, in the meaning defined at transitive sense 1

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The first known use of soften was in the 14th century

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“Soften.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/soften. Accessed 15 Oct. 2025.

Kids Definition

soften

verb
soft·​en ˈsȯ-fən How to pronounce soften (audio)
softened; softening ˈsȯf-(ə-)niŋ How to pronounce soften (audio)
1
: to make or become soft or softer
2
: to lessen the strength of
softener noun

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