passive-aggressive

adjective

pas·​sive-ag·​gres·​sive ˈpa-siv-ə-ˈgre-siv How to pronounce passive-aggressive (audio)
: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by the expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive passive way (as through procrastination and stubbornness)
It is passive-aggressive behavior, the donning of a mask of amiability that conceals raw antagonism toward one's competitors, even one's friends.Hilary De Vries
A passive-aggressive manager eschews open hostilities, in part because he feels distinctly uncomfortable with them.Walter Kiechel III
passive-aggressive noun

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If someone sends critical feedback followed by a smiley face, Gen Z might read it as passive-aggressive rather than thoughtful. Dr. Diane Hamilton, Forbes.com, 3 July 2025 You might be stuck playing 18 holes of passive-aggressive putt-putt. Ana Gutierrez, Austin American Statesman, 2 July 2025 Hayes concluded by emphasizing the importance of respectful communication over passive-aggressive actions. Maria Morava, MSNBC Newsweek, 1 July 2025 Once again, things get passive-aggressive until, while the two women fight to clean up the table, Carrie knocks the Coke over, Miranda’s computer gets wet, and Miranda uses a fancy scarf Carrie had lent her to clean up. Maggie Fremont, Vulture, 27 June 2025 See All Example Sentences for passive-aggressive

Word History

First Known Use

1945, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of passive-aggressive was in 1945

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“Passive-aggressive.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/passive-aggressive. Accessed 9 Jul. 2025.

Medical Definition

passive-aggressive

1 of 2 adjective
: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive way (as through procrastination, stubbornness, and unwillingness to communicate)
a passive-aggressive personality
passive-aggressively adverb

passive-aggressive

2 of 2 noun
: a passive-aggressive individual
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