self-defeating

adjective

self-de·​feat·​ing ˌself-di-ˈfē-tiŋ How to pronounce self-defeating (audio)
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: serving or tending to defeat oneself or itself : counterproductive: such as
a
: acting to defeat its own purpose
a self-defeating argument
You kind of realize that violence can be a self-defeating strategy, because it just gives the other guy an incentive to attack you back in revenge.Stephen Pinker
b
: being or involving an attitude of defeatism
Procrastinators tend to be more stressed than other people—even before they start procrastinating. According to a recent study, that's possibly because they have self-defeating thoughts like, "I'm simply too stupid to benefit from more studying, so I'll just hang out on Facebook."Shana Lebowitz

Examples of self-defeating in a Sentence

Recent Examples on the Web Lowe can senses when the film might grow tiresome when Agnes is stuck in a self-defeating cycle, apt to throw in a particularly sadistic flourish into the mix any time a feeling of redundancy could set in. Stephen Saito, Variety, 16 Mar. 2024 Allies, too, might respond to a U.S. abandonment of the region in dangerous and self-defeating ways. Daniel Byman, Foreign Affairs, 12 Mar. 2024 Within it, Strong created an icon of his own with his portrayal of the damaged and tragically self-defeating eldest son, Kendall Roy. David Marchese Photograph By Mamadi Doumbouya, New York Times, 8 Mar. 2024 Making body adjustments—pulling your shoulders back, standing or sitting up straight, walking in a more expansive way—can pull you out of self-doubt, disappointment or dread and any other self-defeating emotion. Bryan Robinson, Forbes, 11 Feb. 2024 You are stuck in a self-defeating cycle that isn’t going to change. Jeanne Phillips, The Mercury News, 7 Feb. 2024 The compassion in this new cut doesn’t undercut the many scenes of bad behavior, rock-star excess, self-defeating egotism, and descent into junkiedom. David Fear, Rolling Stone, 26 Jan. 2024 On the one hand, there is her affection for these mom-and-pop enterprises that are part of a dying urban tapestry; on the other, her ambivalence about the way poverty and its consequences (addiction, malnutrition, self-defeating escapism) are reflected in and perpetuated through them. Vulture, 20 Jan. 2024 First, in its substance: Xi styled China under his watch as a custodian of the international order, a paragon of globalization and free-trading liberalism and an opponent of self-defeating, nationalist protectionism. Ishaan Tharoor, Washington Post, 17 Jan. 2024

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Word History

First Known Use

1812, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of self-defeating was in 1812

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“Self-defeating.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-defeating. Accessed 28 Mar. 2024.

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self-defeating

adjective
self-de·​feat·​ing
ˌself-di-ˈfēt-iŋ
: acting to defeat its own purpose
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