patronize

pa·tron·ize

transitive verb \ˈpā-trə-ˌnīz, ˈpa-\

pa·tron·izedpa·tron·iz·ing

Definition of PATRONIZE

1

: to act as patron of : provide aid or support for

2

: to adopt an air of condescension toward : treat haughtily or coolly

3

: to be a frequent or regular customer or client of

— pa·tron·i·za·tion \ˌpā-trə-nə-ˈzā-shən, ˌpa-\ noun

— pa·tron·iz·ing·ly \ˈpā-trə-ˌnī-ziŋ-lē, ˈpa-\ adverb

Examples of PATRONIZE

1. The family patronizes the arts.
2. He hated being patronized and pitied by those who didn't believe his story.
3. “I'm sure you did your best even though you failed.” “Please don't patronize.”
4. I patronize the library regularly.
5. For the court to come around, at this late date, to acknowledging our existence as “free persons” is shockingly patronizing; it's condescension that has been cast as liberation. —John Cloud, Time, 7 July 2003
6. She spoke dryly, but she had to admit that the girl did not mean to patronize, and was pleasant, the way she talked right to Stephen instead of across him the way most people did. —Ursula K. Le Guin, New Yorker, 28 Sept. 1987
7. My feelings seem to have been confused and blurred, tinged with sentimentality, colored by a great deal of folklore, and wobbling always between a patronizing affection, fostered by my elders, and downright hostility. —William Styron, This Quiet Dust and Other Writings, (l953) 1982

Origin of PATRONIZE

(see patron)

First Known Use: 1589

Related to PATRONIZE

Synonyms

lord (it over), condescend, talk down (to)

Related Words

cold-shoulder, cut, high-hat, slight, snub; queen (it over)

Near Antonyms

baffle, foil, frustrate, interfere, oppose, sabotage, thwart; desert, disappoint, fail, let down

Rhymes with PATRONIZE

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